Godfrey, Kara (2015-11-20). "The Cosmopolitan Blog Awards 2015 with Blossom Hill Belle Blush: the party!". Cosmopolitan . Retrieved 2021-01-13. To the women who refuse to let society dictate what they should and shouldn’t do with their bodies.”

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One tip to help stop your brain from worrying, and increase your chances of orgasm, is to allow your imagination to take over. Yep, I’m talking about using fantasies during sex. Think that sounds weird? It’s not! Lots of women do it, so let’s normalise it. In fact, a 2014 study found that women who’d had erotic thoughts during sex had a higher chance of climaxing. When sexual wellness platform OMGYES.com partnered up with Indiana University and world-famous sex research hub the Kinsey Institute, to look into how women achieve orgasm, they found that a huge percentage use something called ‘framing’ – which often takes the form of fantasising. Your brain will also release the happy hormones dopamine and oxytocin, the latter of which is linked to increased social bonding (which is why you sometimes feel extra loved-up after you cum). a b Preskey, Natasha (2019-12-01). "Oloni: 'Men don't like the fact I'm helping women wise up' ". BBC Three . Retrieved 2021-01-13.

If you were elected ‘Minister for Sexual Health’ (why isn't that a thing?), what's the first thing you'd change about the UK's attitude to sexual health and wellbeing?

The Big O: An Empowering Guide to Loving, Dating and F*cking

Not only was this book entertaining it was also very educational. I loved that Oloni did extensive research into sex and relationship, consent, virginity, sexual health and range of other important topics. I loved that she was very open in this book about her own sexual experiences. She discusses the need for women to be able to enjoy sex just as much as men and offers some very helpful tips. OKAYAFRICA - 100 WOMEN". OKAYAFRICA's 100 WOMEN-US. Archived from the original on 2020-11-23 . Retrieved 2021-01-13. A drop-off point at the Royal Festival Hall (30 metres) has been created for visitors who are unable to walk from alternative car parks. Our Access SchemeThe ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of. The Big O" is a guide to "dating, loving & †**king", has been created to get to increase sex positivity, and to encourage women to demand more in the bedroom. I definitely enjoyed learning more about my vagina and sexual heath. Not to mention reading about kinks, different sex positions, how to make consent sexy, sexual compatibility and sex toys. This book had it all!! a b "Dami Olonisakin - beds.ac.uk | University of Bedfordshire". www.beds.ac.uk . Retrieved 2021-01-13.

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sex is a partnership and although we live in a phallic society, do not sacrifice your pleasure to appease the world around you (I.E abstain from sex because you are being told to, have sex with someone to keep them..etc)

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It would be that everyone – men, women, non-binary people – should have sex how they want to have sex, not how society has historically dictated how they should have sex, to have sex for themselves, not because they feel it will keep them in a relationship, or sex that makes them worry about being slut-shamed. I want people to have sex that makes them feel good about themselves. Olonisakin started the blog Simply Oloni in 2008. She wrote her first blog posts at the age of 18, in response to a sermon that opposed abortion. [5] [2] She said: Ladies shall we have some fun?' Some of you may recognise this catchphrase and be thinking of the sex and relationship expert Oloni, who built an online community by speaking openly about sex and relationships. Her new book – The Big O – is out and goes into detail about how we can close what she calls ‘the orgasm gap’. Oloni joins Emma. Dami "Oloni" Olonisakin (born 6 August 1990) is a British Nigerian sex educator and relationship advisor. [1] She runs the blog Simply Oloni and a podcast. [2] Olonisakin was included on OkayAfrica's 100 Women list. You can also use the external lift near the Artists' Entrance on Southbank Centre Square to reach Mandela Walk, Level 2.