Ask your daughter if she wants to see her grandparents ask her if she has fun with them ask her if she loves them, if she says yes then you are doing your daughter a big disservice. Eventually, I found another wife…..I had another son, and raised him to be a fine young man….completely cut off from the toxic people that USED to be part of my life. My daughter does not like my mom that much, so she has probably seen there is something wrong with her behaviour. Thank God the other grandparents are normal, loving and caring people. You are absolutely right. Article like this is the reason lots of families have problem these days.

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I have a personal experience with a grandmother overfeeding the grandchild to the point of constipation, and then denying any responsibility when confronted. Even though it happened after the child spent the weekend at grandma’s, she simply didn’t see how it was her fault. This is about people suffering abuse and control from their parents, subsequently manipulating their own children as a tool of abuse and manipulation. You did the right thing to distance yourself from your grandfather. You also should be very proud of yourself for confronting him about all the mistreatment you’ve experienced. It takes a lot of courage! Not everyone can do that. And regardless of the response you’ve received, this is a big step in your healing. So proud of you! My question is, if the father of your grandchildren is as dangerous and dysfunctional as you describe, why did the judge give him full custody? I would think that they look at factors like criminal record or history of abuse when they consider custody issues. Don’t feel like the lone ranger, there, Teri…..you just described EXACTLY what happened with me and my kid…in every detail………except….I cut my losses and moved on and wrote them all out of my life…. I found out that my life and my career improved exponentially without them. I have no regrets. Some jerks will say that I ran away from “my responsibilities”….(nonexistent responsibilities)…..it falls on deaf ears.

What would toxic parents under the same headings reveal? That all parents should be cut off from their children because they do these things too? All About Mom, Mothers Day Gift, All About My Mom Printable, Mothers Day Printable, Mothers Day Questionnaire Preschool The day you became our Nan/Mum/Grandma Print, Mother’s Day gift, Mother’s Day Print Mother’s Day Present, Calendar Style Print I am divorced and share the custody of my daughter with my ex. When I divorced my mom told me I should give up custody because I was too weak to deal with such a difficult child and it would be easier for me to give her away. Thank God I did not believe her! Did YOU PARENTS ever hear of communication. Maybe put yourself in the grandparents shoes. Work it out.

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Surely when visits to grandparents reveal unwanted experiences as well as good ones the balanced parent will build on the good and either discuss or ignore the bad.

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You must be an incredibly strong, compassionate woman. No one survives growing up with narcissistic parents unscathed. But if you’re in a counseling profession, you must have found a way to turn your pain into growth, and a vehicle for helping other people. You go girl!!! This is an example of how the toxic grandparent can harm a child, and still think that they’ve done nothing wrong. 3. Feeling Entitled to Time With the GrandchildrenNana Claus Gift Sweatshirt, Nana Christmas Sweatshirt, Nana Claus Sweatshirt, Nana Claus Christmas Sweater, Family Claus Sweatshirt Vase for Mum, Flower Vase, Ceramic Vase, Personalised Vase, Mothers Day Gift, Mothers Day Vase, Gift for Mum, Nanny Vase, Nanny Gift

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I think it’s OK to be sad about not being able to spend Christmas with your family…And to mourn the loss of your father, because it is a loss, even if he was abusive. I went through this too. I mourned…not so much my father, but the idea of a father I never had. I know the pain never goes away completely, but it eases, especially if we’re able to forgive. Personalised Granddaughter CHARM BRACELET, personalized girls name gift, 30+ colour choice inc gift bag & tag |Nana Bodysuits, Nana's Girl Bodysuit, Cute Baby Outfit, Aint No Nana Like The One I Got Bodysuit, Gift From Grandma, Nana's Boy Outfit It won’t be easy. Cutting ties with your parent (or your partner’s parent) can dismantle the whole family unit and turn people against you.so sorry you’re going through this. I agree, spoiling the child with materialistic things is one of the worst things you can do as a parent or a grandparent. You say your mother has custody of your daughter, so this is a legal issue at this point. I can’t speak on legal matters but I would say, try to get yourself better psychologically and emotionally so that the court can see that you’re a fit mother. Also, having a job is important, so you can show that you can support your daughter. I’m glad you brought it up, and you’re absolutely right. Adoptive parents aren’t perfect, and they can be afflicted by the same mental health issues as the rest of us. When your child is involved, no one should get a free pass to be abusive or disrespectful of your parenting choices. Nearly mirrored my thoughts. So much damage can be done through these types of posts. I’ve known some that lost family connections for themselves and the following generations over such things. That’s robbing of the gift of family, togetherness, a place to belong. Some realize much too late. Some see things differently with the wisdom age brings. The Day You Became My Dad Star Map Fathers Day Gift Night Sky Print Daddy Daughter Gift First Father's Day Art Print Dad Birthday Gift