With that in mind, I suggest you try to develop a thicker skin and a diminished sense of entitlement. It's no fun being described as a control freak, but being replaced by someone else is arguably a lot more painful. I'm not unsympathetic - when a relationship doesn't work it's agonising, particularly if the decision to end it is not yours.

That you would consider doing something so inexcusable and downright pathetic seems to confirm that you really are a cynical manipulator.Your reaction to her decision to move on suggests you really are the control freak she's accused you of being. To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. The further bad news is that, were you to execute your unconscionable plan, the person most detrimentally affected will be you. You need to figure out what went wrong, and you need to start taking responsibility for your part in killing that relationship.

I hadn't spoken with her in 4 years, then I read in the local paper that her husband died in a rock climbing accident this past weekend. There’s nothing worse than needing to get revenge on your girlfriend, whether she cheated on you, stole from you or did something else that caused you emotional turmoil or psychological and emotional abuse. I couldn't wish something so awful on my worst enemy, let alone someone whom I'd shared years of my life with. I didn't know how long did i stared at her that I didn't realise that they were already done performing.

In fact, I think we’d be fooling ourselves if we had an audience this large, and didn’t realize that there were.