It means you need to find what you and her both want to try, start off really slow, work out some rules and then go and try it.

As the bull, you’re the third party that gets chosen to come into the relationship. The main draw here is getting to have no-strings-attached sex with someone who is eager and willing. Asking questions gets you the information you need while also showing them that they can be open with you.But Cherry finds herself tempted to explore missed opportunities and unrequited crushes from the past. As she indulges secret fantasies and illicit romances, Glenn struggles to keep their marriage alive and witnessing his wife's awakening challenges him in ways he never expected. Some think blowjobs are worse than pussy others think anal is worse than anything and shouldn’t be shared, others forbid kissing. She may send you pictures of her night, she might text you everything she is doing and then once she’s home she will tell you everything that happened.

If you’re not quite ready to go looking for a bull, you can get off on listening to your partner talk about sex with someone else. Have her eye up men while you’re at a bar and if they come up have her tell them you’re just her friend. Even if they’re not on board, sharing your desires can open the way for other exploration and kink. Have all the information This is a great place to start, you’ll be able to feel out if you are emotionally ready for more after seeing your wife kiss a new man. The pleasure comes from giving up that power of sexually pleasing your partner over to someone else. The taboo factor

Being honest about your desires and sharing that the idea of inviting someone else into your sex life takes some serious courage. You owe it to your partner to hear them out without any judgment.