How to do it: Like the classic doggy, the receiver has to go down on all fours. Then, the giver who’s gonna penetrate her anally will have to do the “crouching tiger” position on top of her and gently insert his penis into her anus. The other giver also comes in from behind and inserts his penis into her vagina to close the deal. Are some people just watchers, or are there boundaries around certain sex acts with certain people?

Pro tip:“What makes this 69 threesome twist great is that it not only works for FFM or MMF triads but all types of threesome configurations. You can even bring some sex toys in your arsenal, like a bullet vibrator or a magic wand massager, to enhance the sensations for all parties involved.” Double Cowgirl Pro tip:“This is quite an excellent position for triads who prefer to do the same move for extended periods as the body alignment allows easy movement. And the best part? It works for threesome noobs, too.” DP Doggy They may also be psychologically aroused by the thought of being filled by two phalluses (two penises, one penis and one strap-on, or two strap-ons) inside of them at the same time,” she adds. But sex toys can add in more options for play and pleasure, and make sure that everyone can have something fun happening to their body if hands, tongues, and genitals are otherwise occupied.” Noted! Talk about post-sex needs, pre-playThose are just a few of the names that confront women who are fearless in expressing their sexuality and unapologetic about enjoying the performance of oral sex. If a woman actually admits that she enjoys giving head, particularly outside the context of a monogamous relationship, she could face degradation and disempowerment instead of affirmation for simply enjoying the performance of pleasure.

People interested in sex: anyone who’s looking to settle down won’t want to join you for a three-way. You want people who want wild, crazy, NSA sex. Pro tip: The DP Doggy is a fantastic threesome position, especially for MMF triads with a bi-male involved. They get to enjoy the rear views of two lovers in the same stance. Missionary DP How to do it: The 69 partners face each other while ensuring their heads are positioned in each other’s genitals. The top partner should be at the edge of the bed. Next, the penetrating partner positions from behind for vaginal or anal sex. The performance of oral sex is an awakening of the senses. It creates a bodily connection between two people, as taste buds and corporeal pleasure intersect through an act of selflessness. While giving doesn’t always lead to personal arousal, it should inspire the mental stimulation of knowing you’re guiding your partner to orgasm(s). If done right, it can serve as a powerful precursor for sexual intercourse and set the mood for a reciprocal exchange of bliss. But with all the sex-negativity plaguing society-at-large, many partners are too ashamed of giving head to actually enjoy it or too self-conscious to openly admit that they take pleasure in performing oral sex. It’s far easier to feed the ego and brag about receiving it than to discuss the joy in giving something that’s purely for your partner’s delight.Pro tip: “Make sure that both penis owners aren’t thrusting at the same time. If this happens, one of them could easily slip out,” Moore says. “Another tip is to have the person with the shorter penis penetrate the woman first (usually vaginally) and then the one with the bigger penis second (usually anally). Doing so ensures fewer chances of slipping out.” Physically, because their phallus gets to enjoy the tightness of a vagina *and* the sensation of another phallus rubbing against it. I entered the experience with one goal in mind: I wanted to completely let loose and allow myself to fully indulge in my sexual side, acting on every impulse and voicing every desire. One of the best positions for DVP is to have the receiving partner kneeling over one of the giving partners, at the edge of a bed, while the second giving partner’s standing behind the receiver,” says Neal.

Tiffany Y. confesses, “For a person to enjoy giving it they have to really enjoy sex all around. Oral sex is a good sexual act. It’s really intimate to me, and if done right, it will be on your mind all day. I enjoy giving it so much that I get turned on when I do. It gets me excited and I just like to see the guy get so aroused.” How to do it: All partners get into the spooning position by lying on their sides. Then, the two partners penetrate the person right in front of them, either vaginally or anally. Now, start with slow, rhythmic thrusts. And yes, I had several firsts. After struggling to maneuver around wearing a strap-on, I have a newfound respect for anyone who does it regularly. I had hot oil drizzled over me and learned I'm anti-butt plug. From a purely physical standpoint, it was all very fun and exciting. But the one climax I never reached was the total mental surrender. I pretty much went along with anything, but I never initiated.

There are even people there exclusively to find threesome partners. That includes couples looking for a third, bulls looking for hotwives, and everything in between. What toys you use will depend on personal preferences, and what everyone is comfortable doing and to whom,” says Deysach.