Because I believe that without submission in particular contexts, you cannot really live an infinite life as a woman. You may live a good life, but not an infinite one. And this is because through submission to a good man, you get to express yourself to the fullest ( dark and light feminine energy), rather than just surface interactions. Being submissive is about trusting your man enough to let him show you the way sometimes. Many women ask how not to be boring in their relationship. Hard limits are sexual acts that are off-limits. Everyone has their own, and you have to discuss these boundaries before any BDSM play. Use it in a sentence: “Please do not pee on me; golden showers are one of my hard limits.”

The ‘how’ will come to you through understanding of the reason behind it. Case Study: Discover how the introverted Alena got her man to ask her out almost instantly and for the very first time in her life, she started attracting highly esteemed men & making real progress in overcoming her own anxious attachment patterns… All by using this dark feminine art of banter. Being In Control All The Time Doesn’t Help Your Relationship With A Man Essays- This should have the submissive explain the rule that was broken, why the rule is important, and why they must follow through with this consequence. Writing an essay forces the submissive to put into words what happened. It could even be structured in the way of an apology that has three parts: 1) I’m sorry for ____ 2)I need to follow this rule because ______, and 3)In the future I will do _____ to follow the rules set by my Dominant because he has my best interests in mind. Women who always want to be the expert, be dominant, be ‘enough’– they often struggle in relationships or any sort, let alone with a masculine man. A switch is someone who enjoys both the dominant and submissive role. Get thee a girl who can do both. Sitting in a corner- Submissive sits in the corner of the room to have quiet reflection on the rule breaking. This should not be for an undetermined amount of time. Dominants should be careful to tow the line between correction and abuse.

Condition 3. In the event that the task is sexual in nature and I am on my period, I may request to postpone the task until such time that I am comfortable performing it. Playing: I’m also not encouraging women to be submissive all the time.Being submissive is just another role that a woman can take up every now and then in her relationship with a high value, masculine man. It will also kill your ability to develop a deep emotional attraction with a man that inspires him to want to be your man and commit to taking care of you for life! And we want to hear from you, too! As part of our podcast we’ll be sharing listeners’ experiences, thoughts and questions on a different theme every week. Orgasm control, especially when done to a person with a penis, is usually referred to as "edging." This involves bringing someone nearly to orgasm and then abruptly stopping the stimulation, then repeating as desired. If you're new to orgasm control, you probably already know that delayed gratification can make the end reward that much sweeter. You don't have to have any sort of rigid edging routine to explore orgasm control: If you're the submissive partner, simply relax and give your dominant partner permission to take your orgasm into their hands. Have them use their mouth or a sex toy to bring you close to climax, stopping right beforehand. When you can't wait any longer, let them help you cross the finish line and prepare for the most intense orgasm you've had in a while. 5. Buy a massage candle.

It’s not always horrible to tell a man he’s wrong. In some contexts, perhaps it would be more efficient and get better results to tell him he’s wrong. So allow yourself to trust his direction more with certain things. Spend some time letting go, allowing yourself to feel into the strength he can offer you in certain situations.Many of us naturally feminine women have gotten the message that we need to hide it away. Instead of being feminine, we often choose to ‘be in control’. Clothes- Find something that you like her to wear and surprise her with it when she is following a rule. You could start with lingerie and tell her that she will get the complete outfit as she continues to comply with the rules.

A girl who is well loved and who feels pretty and beautiful. What does her energy feel like? Is she warm or cold? Is she hyperactive or calm? Is she vengeful or vulnerable? Caning- This type of spanking happens when the blows are delivered by a thin cane made of rattan across your behind. The cane can be a single rod or a bundle. And that’s why, if you can give him the gift of feeling successful around you, he will WANT to be around you and he will perceive value by being with you. To Be Submissive, Cultivate The Ability To Sit With Uncertainty Being a submissive woman is almost never about admitting you’re “wrong” or less worthy than a man. Being submissive just allows for a man to feel more like a man around you, and as a result, have that extra feeling of passion for you. I grew up thinking sex was shameful,’ Monieau adds. ‘I didn’t even know what masturbation really was, but I knew it was bad.

Question: have you seen men with their little girls/daughters? They don’t want to let ANYTHING hurt their little girl! (Ok unless he’s someone like the evil Joseph Fritzl). You may have already suspected that being submissive is an integral part of showing your feminine energy. Well, part of being in touch with your feminine energy is engaging and feeling all the different parts of yourself as a woman. One way that you can do that is to use positive reinforcement when the submissive is following the rules. Positive reinforcement can be as effective as corporal punishment. Rewards can be used as motivators. As a submissive myself, nothing makes me happier than pleasing my Dominant. If I please him, then he reciprocates with more doting behavior. He delights in making me happy. So if I follow the rules, he rewards me. It makes me want to keep behaving. Positive reinforcement works best for me.