It was more the dramatic buildup to the event of the spanking than the spanking itself" that was distressing. It took me years to re-learn how to be angry, and longer to learn how to have a healthy level of anger.

For, I spent rather more time than he liked in snooker halls, playing the game for money against many of the town’s more ruffian elements. There seems to be an assumption that so long as the physical hit is done with love and doesn’t leave a mark, then this is not violence or abuse. After I had some time to compose myself, she softly touched hair that had fallen on my tear-stained face and said, "I'm sorry I had to do that Katie, but you needed to learn a good lesson about respect.

Let’s go Karen”, I smiled and grabbing her arm pulled her with me right into the back of the convertible. Ultimately, "you want the child to do what is right because it is right, not because you're going to get hit if you don't," Grissom said. My sex education was spotty at best, but one message I got loud and clear was, “Keep men away from your underwear. I do not remember how many times she would hit me but I know she was dedicated to spank as many times as it took for me to cry “genuine tears of contrition and remorse.

Maybe my insistence on telling Mom that I was mostly to blame for our disobedience was not such a good idea, especially since it had not spared Karen.With six children in tow and a father who worked long hours, my mother chose spanking as her primary means of discipline. My mother hitting me in the face with a vacuum cord and giving me a bloody lip, and then apologizing that “she was aiming for my leg. Nothing stings and burns as bad as an angry mother slapping your upper thighs over and over with a hairbrush! Whatever your personal opinion is on BDSM, I think we can all agree that it’s not healthy in the context of a five year old’s everyday imagination! This was also during a three day period in which I was not allowed to eat for the same reason I was earning the nightly marathon spankings.

I didn't have much luck getting away with anything and when I tried to cover it or lie my way out it was even worse. I heard the cries of anger and pain, and later saw the dark bruise lines when I bathed the girls and helped wash their hair. Sometimes I’m tempted to pass memories off as creative embellishment, since I have a vibrant imagination. I have tried to talk to my husband about our son remembering being spanked - not about the more recent comment as my husband thinks our son manipulates me/the conversation. It was the nineteen-sixties and all around me at university students were taking drugs to try to blow their own minds.

Indeed, he was of the school of thought who believed a sound caning should be used as a first resort to deal with wrongdoing. I still enjoy sharing experiences from way back and have shared many a bond with my fellow spankos as well as with those who may have inquiring minds about the subject I am so passionate about!

The idea that you should never resort to physical punishment is a preposterous overreaction to the problem of child abuse," wrote a parent from Cazenovia, N. My three year younger sister Karen has probably seen more of my spankings than any of my other siblings but that is because she is often somehow involved. My parents were not nudists or naturists, they stood full (summer) clothed or in swim-suite every time. She is sure not to slam it because that would indicate anger and spanking a child when angry would be abuse.Imagine how disgusting it would be to grow up thinking something was normal only to find out that your parents were causing you to be sexually aroused while hurting you on a daily basis for your entire childhood and occasionally in your teens. Anyway, my poor young bum took a beating from spanking and other delights those guys administered well after the game had finished.