Are you sure Mark’s wife doesn’t already know about your relationship? I have a hunch that she might be aware of what the two of you have been doing. Asking Mark whether she knows should be your first step. If she does, great! You can all be direct and forthright straight out of the gate. Last time I had been to the ocean I was busy trying to make sure my 3 children didn’t drown. And that’s a big feat at the ocean. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 11 years. He is very sexual, and I am not. We’re in our early 50s. Ever since we’ve been together, he has to “get off” if not every night then the following morning. This, somehow, has become my job, and I’ve become very angry about it—to the point where I don’t even want to see it ever again. He gets upset if I don’t assist. We use to have sex instead, but that became even too much for me. Now, I’m at the point of no return. What do I do about this? I don’t want him to get it someplace else, but I don’t want it as a job anymore. It’s making me hate any sexual thing between us. John traced the outline of my lips with a piece of the fruit, heightening the sensation and getting me extremely turned on. He leaned down and, with his mouth full of rum, dripped the liquid into my mouth from his like a mama bird feeding her baby.

The thing is, we were booked on the Nude side of the resort, where you have to go naked, as opposed to the Prude side, which is clothing optional. Hedo is known for its swingers' parties, so we basically thought it would be one big orgy (which frankly kind of frightened me). Well, the wife had an affair while she was on holiday with the child. It's really her fault for not putting the child first. OP's entitled to a bit of sweet revenge.I’m pretty sure no guys were asking me to go topless and take a pic. I feel less cool than him. Either that or less hot.

It was a brave move to bring my boyfriend of just three and a half months on a trip to Hedo, as those in the know call it.

The main takeaway from our first Tantric couples' workshop was that some sex moves can help me experience a better orgasm—and help my partner last longer—without changing positions or involving fancy toys. This we learned from Kim and Brad Walker of Houston-based Tantric Hearts, who have been teaching at Hedonism II for 17 years.

Haha! I used to live in Lincoln, NE for a few years and I was always the butt of jokes because of my “accent”!! Haha, I think they had an accent! Overall we had a MUCH needed break from the crazies (who were in amazing hands with his mom and my mom). It felt silly, but the sound of the growl vibrated through my torso, giving me this delicious, humming buzz, as if the orgasmic energy were spreading through my body via the vibrations. It made my orgasm feel stronger, bigger, and longer. My (31F) partner (29M) and I started hotwifing a year ago and we’ve really been enjoying the lifestyle. We thought we’d share the story of our first encounter. First came the feather, which John traced slowly and gently alongside my half-naked body. It felt good, but it was nothing new. But then he slowly dripped juice from a piece of cantaloupe on to the middle part of my lips. The cold, gentle drops made not just my lips, but my whole body tingle. I couldn't imagine that there was a part of my body I didn't know could bring me pleasure, but here I was feeling a physical awakening from a few drops of cold liquid on my lips.No kid hanging on my leg. No little boys wrestling while we tried to eat dinner. No dealing with children peeing their pants. Or punching each other. Or refusing to go to sleep at night. The "Drive Your Partner Wild With Desire" class focused on the Tantra principle of using all five senses (i.e., sight, touch, smell, taste, and sound) to awaken your sexuality and increase your pleasure. "These are the five keys to bigger and better orgasms," Kim told the class. Oh and as for the comment about the kids doing bad because of it. Most all kids act up, they will find a reason but with loving parents, together or not, can get their kids threw it.