Are you aware of any health risks with such a long term schedule? I’m currently at almost three months and feel great so far. Thank you for your consideration. Hi Yoga Girl, I am learning a lot from and really excited by your blog. I am an bi-gender male-bodied person who identifies in the middle range between female and male. As I’ve gotten older I’ve gotten more and more disenchanted with and opposed to patriarchy and all forms of male supremacy. Men have made such a mess of the world, and while there have been good things they’ve contributed as well, there are so many signs that their rule is in its last stages. I think female leadership of the family and society is not the only good for women but also is the best and only way to end patriarchy. Now, you have shown me how it is also good for males. The semen retention way is the best way to reconcile the two sexes. Orgasm denial practices can allow the dominant to exercise control over many aspects of the submissive's life. As such, they are often (though not always) practiced as an extension or enhancement of a broader BDSM relationship, or as a means of establishing one. They can allow the dominant to experience enjoyable and sometimes intensely craved feelings of sexual control and erotic power, and the submissive can enjoy intense feelings of sexual objectification and submission to the dominant.

The erection is not completely suppressed and the swelling puts some pressure on my testicles (which appear by themselves grow bigger and more full during the night). Can there be other complications from this pressure? Erotic sexual denial is sometimes used by a dominant to increase their control over a submissive. Because the submissive is kept in a state of sexual need and vulnerability, they are more likely to take a compliant stance with the dominant; failure to comply can result in additional teasing or an extended period of denial, among other punishments. A strap-on dildo may be worn by a male to still allow penetrative vaginal sex to the female while denying the male partner the ability to orgasm, and the male then may also wear a chastity device. [5] This is distinct from pegging, as the strap-on in this case replaces the penis of the male. This can be seen as a form of total denial if the strap-on replaces the penis throughout the whole duration of the play, or as a form of teasing if the strap-on is only used during foreplay. In the last case, the strap-on can be used to prolong penetrative sex and thus sexually satisfy the female partner in case the male suffers from premature ejaculation. [6] [7] [8] As a form of control [ edit ] The trainer is always greater and over the trainee. She uses his fantasies and motivation to his advantage, which ultimately speeds up the learning curve. I am after your thoughts on either/both of these. How I can deal with him? Or even how I could improve the situation to my own benefit?

Ascent into Chastity - Part 1 Seeds of Denial

I had to take my skirt off and she began examining the belt. All went well until she discovered some scratch marks on the waistband. I knew what that was - I'd bumped into a wall on the landing one night. I told her that; but she was suspicious.

Monica stood up and lifted her summer dress right up. She was wearing a chastity belt, similar to Sandra's, and of course the calipers. They fastened round the tops of her thighs, and went right down to her ankles. They were ugly, unattractive, medical-type calipers - the sort any child would have hated to have to wear. But they drew your eyes to them and were striking, obtrusive and embarrassing for any wearer. Perfect, in fact, for the purpose of humiliating any human being; but particularly for a young girl, whose legs were often likely to be displayed and looked at on a daily basis. Generally what you want your man to learn in your female led relationship and what he wants to learn are very different. You want him to learn to overcome his bad habits, work independently, find fulfillment in growing, gain confidence in your leadership and participate as your supportive follower. He want to learn how to serve your body, obey your commands, please you sexually, humble himself and learn what it is like to surrender. Because of the difference and size of the task at hand you must choose your targets. In management 101, when faced with a large number of tasks you must prioritize them, take the top ten and do as many as you can. Delegate where you can and just maintain a list of the ones that don’t get done. There is, however, the added complication of keeping both of you motivated.My short answer is I don’t know. There is no consensus in the medical community on it. That is something you will have to research for yourself. There just aren’t enough or any studies on large groups of males that ejaculate that infrequently. I know my husband couldn’t do it. He would probably have a nervous breakdown if I made him wait that long. Sarah's eyes widened. "Phew, you have got it rough. That the top-of-the range one...wide front-plate, extra vulva-shield?"

Because I need to talk about how I feel and to understand how she feels we have a time on Sunday where we sit together with a glass of wine and can talk about anything. I can ask how long I will have to abstain or how she is feeling. Like does she feel obligated to do anything and so on.Once you are in an ideal state and ready to attach the device, treat lubricant as your new best friend! Ideally use a water based lube that won’t interfere with the material of your device (silicone lube should not be used with silicone devices) and apply liberally to your genitals (shaft and testicles), you can also apply a small amount to the inside of the device but be aware you may then need to wear gloves to allow some friction to keep hold of the device during the next steps! Steer clear of any “tingle” or “heat” type novelty lubes and consider what will be best for your long-term comfort. 4. The base ring Day Two. Waking up to the fresh realization of being forced to wear a chastity belt was so thrilling. I'm very turned on by the idea of the belt, and the actuality of it around me, but of course I can do little to get sexual satisfaction. Sex really would be completely impossible, even if I had anyone here to try it. Masturbation doesn't seem possible either; which is slightly disappointing, yet thrilling again that the belt is so effective. Free time (She definitely decides 100% about her own free time and 100% about our free time together. Of course I can suggest, but she decides. I then can decide for the left time by myself) As noted in the first part of this post, a keyholder can be anyone as long as that person consents to fill the role. Most commonly for men in relationships, it is the caged male’s wife or intimate partner. A guy not in a relationship doesn’t have this built-in option. That can make finding a keyholder at least somewhat more challenging. But it is not impossible. Chastity For Lust And The Fun Of It All