In theory, two people simultaneously giving and receiving oral sex is simple and sensual. In reality, it's not so straightforwardly enjoyed. Between the multi-tasking and awkward positioning, some people love to 69 and some people hate it. The only way you're gonna find out which team you're on is to give it a try. 92. Try to give yourself multiple orgasms. You don't even have to go anywhere! There are tons of sex classes online now, which means you can improve your skills without fighting traffic or leaving your house. Besides, what’s the worst that can happen? You both get better at sex? 74. Take a fetish quiz together.

You don't need to have a foot fetish to appreciate a woman's feet, and while normally the toes aren't thought of as a particularly erotic area, it's exactly this fact that makes them erotic. If, in the throes of passion, you're so overcome by your desire for her that you take a normally un-sexy part of her body and put it in your mouth, you're communicating your passion to her in an undeniable way. Take some time to explore and figure out what porn you like first. The good news is there's tons of ethical, feminist porn out there that's a) super hot and b) won't make you feel grimy because you know everyone involved is being paid fairly and treated respectfully. Once you find something you like, take turns playing show and tell... 63. Take turns reading each other erotica. OK, if foot jobs sound too extreme, how about sensual foot massages? The feet have so many nerve endings, and some people actually orgasm from foot rubs alone, which means pedicures are about to become a lot more fun. 7. Film yourself having sex.

24. Have anal sex.

If you’ve ever felt a lil curious, or just wanna try something new, consider hooking up with someone of a gender you don't normally gravitate toward. Who knows? Maybe you'll uncover a new side to your sexuality—you won’t know until you try. 87. Try a flavored lube. The sex will be worth the ripped T-shirt, explains Levy. Just make sure it’s an item of clothing you won’t be too bummed to part with. 23. Experiment with temperature play. If you ever need a little extra help to get your cunnilingus skills where they should be, naturally, there’s an app for that. Fetishists tend to require the object of their attraction at hand to become sexually aroused. 'Kinky sex involves something that you enjoy adding to your experiences, as opposed to a fetish, which suggests you are dependent on that idea/experience for your sexual arousal and enjoyment and cannot experience sexual satisfaction without it,' says Sheppard.

We spoke to Bodyworker and Sex & Intimacy Coach Libby Sheppard, gynaecologist and co-founder of Hanx Sarah Welsh, and sex and dating expert at The Stag Company Clarissa Bloom, about the pros and cons of exploring kinky sex, plus we share 26 expert tips for beginners on how to enjoy a positive, safe and sexy kink experience: What is kinky sex? Swap the finger or toy for a tongue with a rim job. Rimming (also called analingus) is mouth-to-anus oral sex and it’s *also* less intimidating than it sounds. Both giving and receiving are totally different—in a good way!—than you probably think, so be sure to swap roles to really learn what rimming is all about. 52. Try penetrative anal sex.They exist, says Levy—and here are some tips on how to have a nipple-induced orgasm. We gotchu. 22. Rip the clothes off each other, literally. Kinky sex covers a whole host of sexy things, from BDSM and power play to fetish and role play. It can be confusing to understand exactly what counts as kinky sex, and how you can do it yourself. So if you're looking to get into kink for the first time, or you want more tips on how to do it safely, here is everything you need to know. Remember: It's important to read up as much as you can before you try anything kinky with a partner. What is kinky sex?