Coarse stubble can feel like sandpaper on his hole, so burying your prickly face in his ass might not be much fun for him. Due to the common fear of excrement rubbing off on one’s partner, many people perform enemas (whereby they inject liquid into the rectum) before engaging in anal sex. On the other hand, if you’ve been dealing with big-butt problems since forever, then you know what to cut down on. Enemas increase your risk of acquiring infections, including gonorrhea, chlamydia, hepatitis and even HIV. People love to use oils for anal play, and coconut oil is great if you're lubeless and needing a household alternative––just keep in mind that no oils are condom-compatible,” Ligon adds.

So treat your body right, stop when things get uncomfortable, communicate throughout the process, and most important, have fun! And while it’s hard to stop when it’s getting hot and heavy, remember that protecting yourself first is the most important thing to keep you and your partner(s) safe. Different positions will give you different access to his erogenous zones, so try them out and see what he likes. Despite the fact that both men and women have been engaging in anal sex since the ancient Greeks (and probably long before that), there remains, in many circles, a stigma attached to it.But as the LGBTQ rights movement continues to progress around the world, hitting many more milestones, maybe ass should start to become a bigger part of the gay rights conversation. So one night after a few too many vodka-Gatorades (don’t judge), I created a Grindr profile, complete with one—just one—photo of my headless torso, as most questioning men in the suburbs do. If he’s pushing back onto you, moaning and grinding the mattress, take it as an endorsement to keep doing what you’re doing. One of the best parts of getting your ass rimmed or eaten is the anticipation of what’s coming, whether it’s more ass play (like fingering, toys or fisting) or going straight into getting fucked.

You’re not going to be able to relax and enjoy yourself if you’re worried about making a mess the whole time.Rimming carries the risk of STIs such as chlamydia, herpes, genital warts, gonorrhea, syphilis, and hepatitis A. But it's what I've come to expect: Which is why, in that dismal shower stall, I pushed through the pain of twisting my body and went forth with my trusty razor. We hear that waxing is the best option as it gives the smoothest of results but using a body groomer can be easier and less painful. Soon they are dealing with more flirtatious fans than they ever imagined, and testing the limits of their marital freedom. He’s done it all, from directing a psychedelic opera to investing in a fuck dungeon below his gallery.

Because the key to pleasure and personal acceptance—and, like, actually deciding whether I should shave my butt hair or not—is mine. Think of it as the first time you ate ice cream and it dripped everywhere but that only made you want to lick it harder and faster.Shaving] makes the area around your hole more sensitive so that when you’re getting rimmed by a guy with facial hair, it feels one-hundred times better,” he says. Many people have had negative bottoming experiences in the past or simply have a fear of the unknown, rendering them unable to relax their anus and enjoy safe and pain-free anal intercourse. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice. Additionally, among subjects who performed 50 or more enemas in their lifetime, there is a trend for increased risk of anal dysplasia (which can lead to anal warts and anal cancer). Once the body senses the flow of stool, the rectosigmoid position goes from being angled to starting to straighten out, allowing the passage of stool down to the rectum and into your toilet,” Dr.

Even if you are consistently using condoms, PrEP can serve as a valuable backup if you are at even a minor risk for HIV exposure. Besides porn, the popularity of early-2000s boy bands might have something to do with the "mass exodus of body hair" in gay culture, says Daniel Saynt, founder of sexual wellness club NSFW. You can go for the traditional doggy style over the bed, as you kneel alongside the edge and dangle on to the butt like a mountain climber, or you could try the face sitting method, where the receiver squats over the rimmer’s face. Just butts – precisely because we’ve been avoiding it as the thing that supposedly sets gay men apart when, in truth, it’s apparently one thing upon which we can all agree. Non-personalized content and ads are influenced by things like the content you’re currently viewing and your location (ad serving is based on general location).You can use dilation kits, which let you work your way up a series of toys with graduated sizes, or invest in a longer-term device like a prostate massager (linking to my personal fave), a dildo, or a butt plug. Seeing absolutely hairless, smooth bottoms in porn does a lot to teach us that a smooth bottom is the only bottom," he says.