Most of your poop sits further up your rectum but anal penetration can make you feel fuller and give you the feeling that you need to ‘go’.

If you are in the market for a sex toy then you should start with a flexible anal stretcher. Flexibility ensures that the toy will not harm you even you insert it in the wrong way or assume the wrong position during anal play. It is worth noting that the flexibility of the anal plug will most often depend on the materials used. For example, anal stretchers made from silicone or rubber are often soft and flexible. However, you can opt for a more rigid anal stretcher like the Size Matters Magnum Ease-In Anal Dilator Kit. These are often suitable for direct simulation of the G-spot/the prostate or if you crave something hard in your ass. Quality If met with resistance — which is totally normal — gently remove the dilator, reapply more lube, and try again. Tip: A thin tapered tip is going to be easier to insert, especially for beginners. As you progress in your stretching journey, your ass will begin to open up for wider tips. After taking care of the bathroom duties, clean out your cavity by using the douche/enema at least 2-3 hours before the stretching session. Step 03: The right butt plug. The best butt toys for beginners are: Anal Training Kits, Butt Plugs, and Anal Beads. Specifically, for men, we recommend P-spot toys, also known as prostate massagers, which are shaped with a bulbous tipped curve to reach a man's prostate easily.And the largest plug comes complete with a pair of weighted balls inside to add some extra-fulfilling pressure as it fills you up. A successful and pleasurable anal stretching session consists of several things/steps you should pay attention to. These are: Step 01: Ensure that your bowels are empty. It’s really NBD and not exactly surprising given that your rectum is home to the stuff. Just clean the dilator, wash your hands thoroughly, and try again. Lubrication– It is important to lubricate your toy thoroughly before you begin any form of anal play. It is even more important to lubricate your toy and booty when anal stretching. Make sure you use the right amount of lube (depending on your anal stretcher) and don’t be scared to use lots of it. Personally, I found that, in the beginning, laying on your side in the fetal position is [the] most comfortable, because it is a natural position for your anal tract. Essentially, it straightens it out.

For anal play experts wanting to push their sexual boundaries and add new sensations during anal play, there are so many great options for stimulating, teasing and penetrating the anal region for sexual fulfilment. Experiment with temperature anal play using glass booty toys which can be heated or cooled. Add stimulation by vibration with anal vibrators, or take animal role play to the next level with butt plug tails. Anal stretching is a session that requires a number of butt plugs or specially designed anal stretchers in graduating sizes to ensure that you get to progress smoothly from one size to the next. First things first. Before we get into the step-by-step tutorial, we should get one thing straight: as any form of anal play, gaping has its risks.Like other muscles, your anal sphincter is only accustomed to stretching so far. If you want to loosen it up, it’s going to require some work. Your anus is full of sensitive nerves endings giving anal play many amazing forms of pleasures. And the fun isn’t reserved for folks who have a prostate. You should warm up with toys before playing with a partner. This way, you won’t have to worry about feeling rushed and can take things at your own pace. As you start out, make sure that you use a smooth butt plug that has a flared base. This prevents it from accidentally slipping into your anus and causing discomfort and pain. Step 04: Time limit. If you do want to use a butt plug for stretching, choose one where the stem is almost as wide as the inserted plug. You should begin any anal gaping session by emptying your bowels. If you want, you can take a gentle laxative to help speed things up. You could take over-the-counter medication or go for natural alternatives such as Senna extract, castor oil, or prunes.

Take it slowly– Once the toy is well lubricated, you can proceed to insert it slowly. Ensure that you take it slowly and that your body is relaxed. Your body will stretch beyond its limits if you are in a warm and cozy mental and physical environment. Being aroused helps too! Unlike anal sex where the size of the penis is constant, anal stretchers get enlarged at the base. Slowly slide in the anal stretcher until you feel pressure and let the toy rest. Anal training makes anal penetration very pleasurable. It also helps you work up to larger anal toys and other butt playing, such as gaping.Some people find anal play to be quite uncomfortable or even just painful. But with the right set of anal dilators, you can train your body to make penetration easier. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set allows you to stretch your tight anus for maximum comfort and pleasure. This Clear Double-Tunnel is a super stretchy butt plug that is made by using a combination of TPR and silicone material which makes it flexible enough to fit anyone yet firm enough to provide you with a glorious stimulation. Basically, if your ass is just gobbling up your toy and you no longer feel any resistance, then it’s time! Remember, resistance is normal, pain is not. If you feel pain as you try pushing further, stop. You’ve gone as far as you need for today! With regards to material, Doc Johnson Titanmen is made from phthalate-free PVC. This means that you can easily clean it using warm water or a suitable toy care liquid. It is, however, worth noting that this toy may attract dust or hairs so you should not clean it with any material that sheds fiber.