Big is Better: Book 1

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Well said. My partner loves a penis extender (yep on top of his and no erectile problems!) but ouuchhh! Might be a turn on for him but a turn off for me. Pain isn’t fun or enjoyable getting a 10″. I like his perfectly sized c**k fine. Why do they think they need bigger or enjoy watching a monstrous thing pounding into us.” More Reading: NSFW: What is a Penis Extender and Why You Should Buy One Lesbians may engage in strap-on or other phallus play, but as to a flesh and blood penis? No, if you aren't sexually attracted to men, big or small, she isn't going to want it in there, so feeling is irrelevant and not applicable. However, this study indicates that penis size is also relevant. Outcomes showed: the bigger, the better. The researchers found that the most appealing penis size was larger than 98% of Italian males.

Almost 70 percent of men and those with penises will experience erectile dysfunction by the time they are 70. However, we shouldn’t classify it as normal, as there are many reasons it can affect an individual and these can vary from person to person," Cooper says. "Anyone experiencing erectile issues should see a medical professional to find out the cause. Once the cause of erectile dysfunction is found whether that is psychological, physical, or a mixture of both, there are many treatment methods to help manage symptoms." It is interesting, though, that the researchers found that if the erect penis was longer to begin with, the rings had less of an impact.

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I’m sorry to hear what you’ve been through. I’m glad you are still able to have an enjoyable sex life and I agree with you that smaller can be better.” Although, it’s not the pounding that matters… My hubby is big, I prefer it much but I wouldn’t dump a guy for that reason. It’s more about your chemistry with somebody than just size.” And as long as it does its job. I think that all comes down to belief systems," Ryeland explains. "Quite often, we have a lot of beliefs that don't serve us to our highest good. Challenging beliefs takes a lot of work, but with the right guidance and with the right support system, creating new beliefs is entirely possible."

Comparison truly is the thief of joy, even among peers. A study conducted by the Aesthetic Surgery Journal in 2018 found that participants that engaged in "upwards" comparison (comparing penis size with peers with a perceived larger penis) felt a direct impact on their self-esteem. Whereas those who engaged in "downwards" comparison (comparing with smaller penises) actually experienced an increase in self-esteem. This combination of factors has resulted in 45 percent of men feeling dissatisfied with their penis size.

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Now, there’s a rise in the desire for penis augmentation in men with completely normal penises, despite there being multiple risk factors and frequent complications with these kinds of surgeries. And yet, where counselling has intervened, men have found confidence in their penis size and no longer wish to continue with augmentation. Penetrative sex is not the holy grail for pleasure And here’s a fun fact you might not know! Vaginas, just like penises, are different sizes. So a person might have a particularly short vagina, in which case having sex with someone who has a really big penis is going to be a major no. On the other hand, some people have really long vaginas or wider openings to their vaginas, which means that they’re going to prefer big penises. There’s so much more that goes into penis size preferences than “big is better than small!” One woman reported that the penis ring caused soreness and pain due to friction on the pelvic bone, inner thighs, and clitoris, another said there was less lubrication, and another said the ring meant their partner’s penis entered at the wrong angle, too.

Prof. Jennions said, “We’ve found that penis size did influence a man’s sex appeal, and it was just as important as height, which is a well-known factor in male attractiveness.” Yeah average penis size is nice. 6in and a banana like girth.” And besides, “I don’t want to give birth every time I have sex!” I’ve had a few in my time (lol) so I think I’ve seen at least one from every point of the spectrum. Size matters to a degree. Too small is an issue (I’ve broken up with a guy because it was smaller than my pinky and I literally couldn’t feel anything during sex – I wasn’t willing to be celibate the rest of my life) and a guy I was seeing mutually agreed it wasn’t going to go anywhere because he was too big. Studies show that when it comes to sexual satisfaction, couples who engage in other forms of sex like oral, hand, and mutual masturbation, have a more fulfilling experience. This is particularly prevalent in the LGBTQ community, where penetration isn’t the central focal point of sex for many couples. Apps like Grindr, a dating platform for queer folk, have options for people to identify as " sides" (men who prefer not to engage in anal sex).Ryeland tells Mashable that she asks her clients to examine where these feelings of dissatisfaction arise from. Often, these are opinions they have taken upon themselves, and very rarely are they opinions gifted to them, she adds. Ryeland advises that there are also things you can do yourself to begin to feel more connected and less ashamed of your penis size."Sometimes we need to take the focus off the intercourse and just focus on connection," she says. We started with the premise that depth of penetration would not matter to most women,’ said the authors. ‘However, we found in our participants that reducing the depth of penetration by an average 15% with Ring B (2.54-cm [1″] reduction) led to an 18% reduction of overall sexual pleasure. For one, this study is not really indicative of a standard sexual experience. It’s unlikely that a man’s penis would suddenly decrease by two inches in length, and it may be that it’s the sudden change, not so much the overall length, that makes sex less pleasurable. Little ones, skinny ones and too massive ones, I don’t like. But I’m not going to say that to the poor guy.”

When it comes to penis size, is it really a case of it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean? Also, the extent to which a woman emphasizes penis size as a selection criterion for a male sexual partner varies considerably from person to person. Does an honest and trustworthy partner feel better? One with a nice smile and compatible sense of humor? One who takes them dancing and is kind to others? Does it feel better to be with a man who is taller than they are? Does satisfying conversation with a partner feel better? Does being with someone who is confident but not arrogant feel better? Yes, these are the things that women consistently say are initially very important and attractive in a man, starting with honesty as consistently number 1. Men also consistently rank honesty as number 1 or 2. Height and smile are the only physical characteristics women identify that consistently rank high in what makes a man initially attractive as a partner. Got a question about sex that you're too embarrassed to ask? In the online sex misinformation crisis, getting accurate and reliable answers about sex is more difficult than ever before. Mashable is here to answer all your burning sex questions — from the weird and wonderful, to the graphic and gory. Think of us as your sexy agony aunts. Everything is better when it's BIG. You know you wish you had tropes this BIG. Unless, of course, you're Tiny Tropes. consensually. The arsehole who raped me didn’t care how ready I was.” More Reading: Top 14 Online Adult Shops in Australia So smaller can be better…Think about it – are you really going to be delivering the best sexual performance of your life when you’re in a scientific study and you’re getting used to having less length to play with? In conclusion, based on experimentally reducing depth of penetration, our results are consistent with the experience that size may matter for sexual pleasure in some women in a healthy relationship when there is penile shortening.’