NJOY Pure Wand

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We-Vibe has created many iterations of their signature C-shaped couples' vibe over the years, and this one is about as close to perfect as they've gotten yet. Like its predecessors, this one has two "arms": one goes inside the vagina to hit the G-spot, while the other sits outside on the clit. It's meant to be worn during penetrative sex, stimulating both partners at once, but I've also found that it works well solo. The Chorus's most unique feature, though, is its squeeze-control remote: the tighter you squeeze the remote, the stronger the vibration gets, which is much more intuitive in the heat of the moment than struggling to press buttons in the dark.

One of the most exciting days in my entire career as a sex toy reviewer was the day I received this formidable dildo in the mail. It's eleven inches of stainless steel from tip to tail, and offers you two different sizes to choose from with its double-ended design. While I'm not always in the mood for its beefy girth, it's one of the only dildos that can consistently make me cry from how intense it feels. Not to mention, it's so beautiful that you could display it on your nightstand like an objet d'art.On using a vibrating massager (warning: somewhat unrealistic expectations of ease of orgasm): Thread: Beginner's Guide to Prostate Play You may also want to avoid this sex toy if you have arthritis or a disability that affects your grip or arm strength. The Pure Wand is a lot heavier than most other toys—it's made of stainless steel, after all. That means it weighs about one and a half pounds, which doesn't sound like much, until you’re holding onto it for 15 minutes while trying to build up an orgasm. This can take a serious toll on your arm, especially if your goal is learning how to squirt. "If squirting is not something that happens naturally for you, then you may need to explore for quite some time," advises DiMartino. "So the Pure Wand may not be ideal for people who have a hard time holding something weighty." (Fair.) The Game-Changing Features And if you don’t like the sensation of a new toy the very first time you use it, don’t give up on it just yet. “The first time we try anything, we’re doing what we call spectatoring, which is observing ourselves, how it’s going, what we thought, what our partner thought. We’re in our heads and not so much in the experience,” says Fleming. “So try, try again.” Women who want to learn how to squirt. The Wand has a reputation for inducing squirting, even in women who have never squirted before. Squirting seems to be all the rage these days, and there’s a good chance this baby can get you there. They've become such a die-hard fan that the Pure Wand always makes an appearance at DiMartino's "Squirtshop" (yes, that’s a workshop that teaches people how to squirt). "It’s probably the single best thing for learning how to squirt, second to understanding how the process works," says DiMartino.

Women wanting to explore their G-spot. This is a fantastic product for women who have never been able to find their G-spots before. I can’t overstate its simplicity. I wasn’t particularly into G-spot play when I first started working at The Pleasure Chest," says DiMartino. "But then a bunch of coworkers were all really hyping [the Pure Wand] up to me, saying, 'You need to try this thing.'" Now, DiMartino is the person hyping the Pure Wand to friends, sexual partners, and pretty much anyone who walks into The Pleasure Chest. If you ask us, the best sex toys on the market today are right up there with fire and the wheel in terms of humanity's greatest inventions. Go ahead, laugh: but what is technology supposed to do besides make our lives easier and more pleasant? And let's be honest, what's more pleasant than a toe-curling orgasm? This section intends to preserve some user-posted guides outside of the original post. Some edits may have been made for formatting, brevity, or to prevent rule-breaking.Ever wanted to penetrate someone with your balls? Frankly, probably not, but hey, guess what—you can! The Balldo basically turns your balls into a dildo, encasing them in a silicone sheath you can slide inside your partner's vagina or butt. There are openings on either side of the Balldo, so your balls will be stroked on every thrust. Some users—including my partner, when we tested this toy—have reported being able to have "ballgasms," i.e. climaxes from balls stimulation alone. Who knows whether "ballsex" will ever become a widespread practice, but if you're curious about it, this is the one and only toy I'm aware of that makes it possible! Ease of Use: 3.5 / 5 | Durability: 3.5 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4 / 5 | Features: 4.5 / 5 | Value: 4 / 5 | Overall Rating: 3.9 / 5 Pros: Rotating balls in shaft for G-spot stimulation; rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds, seven vibration patterns, and three rotation speeds; arms can be controlled separately; waterproof Pros: Simultaneous stimulation of the clit and G-spot; strong vibrations; 10+ vibration modes; can be used solo or with a partner, including while being penetrated vaginally with a penis or dildo; bendable and adjustable for a better fit; ridged texture helps keep toy in place during sex or masturbation; app connectivity for either short-distance or long-distance play; quiet; waterproof; can also be used in the palm of your hand to add some vibration to a handjob or blowjob

Pros: Allows you to penetrate your partner with your balls, potentially creating new and unique sensations for both of you; doesn’t require an erection Ease of Use: 3 / 5 | Durability: 4.5 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4.5 / 5 | Features: 3.5 / 5 | Value: 3.5 / 5 | Overall Rating: 3.8 / 5Ease of Use: 4 / 5 | Durability: 4 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4 / 5 | Features: 4 / 5 | Value: 4 / 5 | Overall Rating: 4 / 5 How to Use: Follow the included instructions to set up the toy (they’re too complex to summarize here!). Control the toy with its corded remote control or by connecting it to the Cowgirl app. Ease of Use: 3 / 5 | Durability: 4.5 / 5 | Fun Factor: 3.5 / 5 | Features: 4.5 / 5 | Value: 3 / 5 | Overall Rating: 3.7 / 5

How to Use: Hold down the middle button to turn the toy on or off. Use the other two buttons to control the toy’s intensity level. Apply water-based lube to the nozzle of the toy before putting it on your clitoris. This luxe toy comes highly recommended by Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, a sexologist and sex & relationships expert for Lovehoney. "The Womanizer Duo offers an alternative to simple vibrations, as the outer arm stimulates the head of the clitoris with pleasure-air technology that uses tiny bursts of air to create a suction-like sensation over the clitoral head," she explains. "The inner arm curves upward against the G-spot to provide vibrations, and each function can be controlled individually." Basically, if you want to overload your clit and G-spot with pleasure, this toy is one of the best and fanciest ways to do it! Wand vibrators: While originally designed and marketed as “body massagers,” these large, round-headed vibrators are also beloved by people who need (or want) a lot of power to get off. And, naturally, you can also use them for actual body massage if the mood strikes! Pros: Very powerful vibrations; eight vibration speeds; double-weighted head for extra rumbliness; luxurious metal construction; LED-lighted buttons for easier use in the dark

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If you're new and looking for tips, do not skip reading their Getting Starting wiki. Advanced users may find value in their Advanced Skills section.