Chastity tasks: Tasks to assist you in your chastity training

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The trainer is always greater and over the trainee. She uses his fantasies and motivation to his advantage, which ultimately speeds up the learning curve. Keep in mind: ChastityDungeon.com is designed to be used along a normal, everyday lifestyle. Our goal is to provide long-term chastity training and engagement; not short-term scenarios where you want something to do for a couple of hours. As such, you will only get an average of one task a day. We keep adding more and more tasks. When there are new questions in the task questionnaire, you'll see a notification in your dashboard. Keep your eyes on it, so you can keep all your preferences up-to-date, and we can give you the best possible tasks. Tasks can also be used when a Dominant is busy or working or on vacation. They are super helpful when the Dominant is short on availability and time, but the submissive is not. Instead of the submissive waiting around until the Dominant is available, a task can be given for the submissive to focus on when the Dominant can’t be present. By using tasks in this way, the submissive can submit and focus on the Dominant even when the Dom is busy.

A rule is something that is negotiated and given to a submissive. Rules, once in place, are recurring. They should be followed, and are expected to be done, usually without prompts. If you roll 9, then every 9 day, BUT if you dont do it or fail at that task you will get + 1d9 days to your weeks ;3Thank you (You), I am unsure if you are a Woman or a man, but appreciate your effort in creating this piece. Housework (There are things she wants to do herself, I have to do the rest. There are exceptions, for example if there is simply not enough time, then she does it herself. No problem as long as it is justified and rare.).

Free time (She definitely decides 100% about her own free time and 100% about our free time together. Of course I can suggest, but she decides. I then can decide for the left time by myself) Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply. If you are a Master or a Mistress and have a sub then you can use the program to control him/her when you are absent. You don’t have to be cruel, and you certainly don’t have to listen to anyone tell you ‘you shouldn’t let him cum’. I never understood that as a working practice anyway. Remember that part of the fun is maybe being spotted with your device, and that you will not get the same rush and experience if you cheat.another one is d10 - defines number of days you will need to do a specific task. For example you got 3.

Once the punishment is completed, aftercare is critical for the mental well-being of the submissive. The punishment is meant to hurt so that the undesired behavior doesn’t happen again. Aftercare reassures the sub that they are still cared for. The aftercare after punishment is not the same as aftercare after a scene. There should be some reassurance to the submissive to remind them they aren’t bad, they are still loved. Avoiding shame triggers is a vital part of protecting the submissive’s emotional and mental health. When it comes to punishment, your FLR is very different from mine. I do get penalties. With the whip, the paddle or the cane if violent offenses have occurred. Masturbation or lying would be something like that, for example. Then it will really hurt. My wife gets great satisfaction when I beg to stop and vow to do better. Above all, she enjoys the power to comply or not to comply with my begging. Unfortunately, she feels just as comfortable in the role of the kind as in the role of the unimpressed. The latter more often.BDSM contracts are a pretty important part of the relationship. Both parties need to bring something to the relationship to make their counterpart the best version of themselves. The contract outlines what the Dominant/submissive will be responsible for. They are meant to protect both people from hurt feelings and unrealistic expectations. They can include anything you want, really. And they can and should include any rules and consequences for rule breaking. These can be verbal or written out, but the most important part of the contract is communication. This is something that is ongoing throughout the duration of the relationship. Discipline Once good communication and trust are established, then the couple can explore and play. It is important to note that there is such a thing as a toxic, or bad, Dom. Unfortunately, there are some Doms that do not take the submissive’s needs into account and are in it for what makes them feel good. They don’t understand or respect the limits that the submissive has agreed to. Part of the draw of the lifestyle as a submissive is to relinquish control to someone else so that they can help you be the best version of yourself. It’s not all about pleasure, well, that’s relative. There is pleasure in having someone take charge of parts of your life. There is pleasure in exploring how far you can push yourself. That’s why submissives need Dominants. It’s about learning your limits and having boundaries. The Dominant that you gift with your submission will guide you and enforce the boundaries when you forget. How they enforce is between you both and is something that should be discussed frequently.