Training Her Husband: Femdom Rules

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Daddy has the final say, as always, and you will listen carefully to my instructions and follow them.

Fast forward a bit and I had asked her to spank me in regard to it excited me. More discussions that kind of brought out my desires to look after her. She did whip me a few times and then there was a break. She said she found it wrong to hurt someone. I said things like other people do it and that it helped me stay on a submissive headspace and so on. So now she whips me but not as punishment but as a reward and it’s her way of supporting me. She will say I am doing this for you. On the detail, when I am to be whipped, she will tell me to go and get ready. I have to get the ropes and toe them to the corners of the bed. I then remove my clothes and lie spread eagle and she ties me down and gags me because we both know I am too weak to endure on my own. At this stage I am questioning in my own mind if I am just too weird. Then she whips me. It’s insanely painful and I am totally focused on surviving the pain. Then it’s over. Power and self-confidence and closely linked together. If you’re not confident, it’ll be much harder for you to give off that aura of strength, power, and control that’s central to the experience. Husband MUST satisfy Queen's pussy orally whenever and wherever she desires. Husband must eat her pussy and cum without question or complaint, and bring her to orgasm.Don’t be nervous or insecure; be proud of your kinks and enjoy yourself. This is important both inside and outside of the bedroom. If you’ve decided to broach the topic of dominant sex with someone, don’t mumble something awkwardly under your breath, take a leaf out of Mr. Grey’s book, and openly declare ‘I’m a Dominant.’ If your thought is for me. To be embarrassed , wrong. I have experience in the LS. 8 years , I thouroughly read people’s writings and let me add that I usually read everything someone wrote (all the pieces unless I can not get through it all in one sitting) before I comment. So.thayni can get a sense of that person.

Whilst I am sitting at my desk, you will offer to kneel under it and take me in your mouth whilst I work. My show is starting again now, honey. I need to concentrate on my show and you need to concentrate on your best self-arousal efforts. You know what I'm looking for honey. Get right to the edge and try to keep it there as long as possible. Start with a hundred long, slow strokes and remember rules two, three, and four."Rule 3 was more cerebral and re-enforced rule two. William was required to repeat one of his memorized mantras softly, over and over, whenever he masturbated himself. "Get to the edge for Jessica, no cummies allowed... Get to the edge for Jessica, no cummies allowed." In my opinion though, there is far too much emphasis of the Women having to do everything to ensure the dynamic functions. For example the Women should; organise, create, manage, ensure, lists, structure, rules, oversee etc. etc.

Opening up about mental health to a partner can be a scary thought, but I recommend you do if you feel comfortable. I’d rather know if my sub had any issues I should be aware of that might impact them during play. I made a mention about porn , so I don’t people writing as if I I said your were a porn acdorem, or insinuating. That I didn’t read what you wrote. That is so typical out here these days. To accuse me of not reading the piece when I wjen5s obvious I did. You wrote it, why do I have to pull out specifics to point to what I am referring to. There’s a certain liberty that comes with completely giving up control like that. The sub doesn’t have to think about anything other than following instructions. They don’t have to worry about how good the sex is for their partner; they just have to do as they’re told. As such, they can fully let go of any anxiety or worry and lose themselves in the moment. The Thrill of Fear, Degradation, and Pain The ultimate goal. Remember, your ultimate goal is to serve your Mistress wife and to make her life a calm, contented, and ultimately better experience.Always remember that everything you do is only permitted because I have allowed it. TO eat, sleep, urinate, defecate, even so much as breathe is because I, your supreme Goddess, have allowed you to do such. Remember everything you do is a privilege I have granted you and that I can remove these privileges any time I see fit Rules about speech restrictions aren't universal, but are still common. This can range from specific words to times of required silence. Some men talk to much, usually for no good reason, and rules can help to correct this. Even for the many men that do not, when their wife is speaking to them men should remain silent and listen. Men should listen more and speak less, and your rules combined with your other training will teach him how to properly act. If none of those titles make you feel comfortable, you can forgo any kind of honorific. Some Doms just like to be referred to by their names, or perhaps by Mr. [Surname]. That’s totally fine too — whatever floats your boat! 6. Learn the Ropes

The sub also has to be able to trust that you’ll respect those boundaries, and it takes time to build up that trust. I wouldn’t recommend trying to ‘dominate’ someone you haven’t already built up that trust with and definitely don’t assume that every woman will be into it. How to Be a DomLike other categories, this is a critical one to complete domination and will help train him to be more open to other activities like water sports. Submissives in the past would also have ideas for rules (perhaps from previous dominants, or perhaps just something they enjoy doing for you and brings them pleasure). Those would be added to the list. Power roles are an important component of eroticism. Sex is intrinsically linked with our ideas of power, and this link between power and sex is omnipresent in our culture. By way of history, the first inclination of something different was when it came to sex. She wanted to be on top. She said that she found it easier to get aroused. There was a fair bit of experimenting early in the marriage where I would cum before her and go soft and she would be left unsatisfied. She said she wanted us to cum together but I would cum early. We went through a period where she was frustrated and then through discussion we agreed that I would hold off and giver her time to orgasm. But then having held off I couldn’t immediately cum and then I would get frustrated. We also talked through other aspects of sex were she indicated that often she felt obligated to just give me sex so I would not get grumpy or obligated to perform and fake orgasm so then proceed to my orgasm. I really had this desire to look after her and not put pressure on her and the end result of these discussions was that she would initiate sex. I was not to ask or talk about it or beg or plead. I would try to get her in the mood by making sure the house was clean and the chores all done. Give her flowers and so on. Over time, sex is only when she wants it and I never orgasm inside her. I get to masturbate about once a month but sometimes she will make me abstain for several months. Your list of rules for your submissive may be even shorter, and that’s absolutely fine, even encouraged, if you are just starting out. It’s better to have one rule which is enforced and you both enjoy, than 100 where only a handful are followed haphazardly.”