TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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When I say “effectively”, that means a few things. It should keep it secure, obviously. But also consider how hard you want it to restrain erections. Michael is the author of the Total Chastity Diary and has been in and out of chastity since his mid-thirties. He’s now 41. He lives and works in Boston, has a white-collar job, and is single by choice.

BDSM purists will say that metal is the only option for serious chastity play. They keep the penis under tight control and often allow plenty of ventilation. Chafing and circulation are a concern if they’re too tight, so make sure you apply some lubricant regularly to avoid skin damage.They can be used short-term until you’ve earned your way out or as part of a long term BDSM relationship in which you hand over the keys to someone else. The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful.

While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length. Not to get all preachy about the prevalence of porn and instant gratification in our society or anything, but… If they hang down with a height of more than 2”, or extend away from your body with a length of more than 1.5”, then you should definitely choose a cage with a large gap.

Michael Cole

There are three of these clamps included with the cage, along with the usual pins and spacers. The anti-pullout feature is optional, though, so you can leave these off if you want to start slowly or simply want more freedom. If you masturbate alone every day, then you’ll probably want less sex. And when you do have sex, you might find be desensitized. You might even find it hard to cum.