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Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and Scientific Advisor to Lovehoney, also noted that while the stigma surrounding masturbation spans across gender, it is particularly strong when it comes to men using sex toys. Want to give pegging a go? Shannon suggests the aptly named Pegasus, a vibrating, remote-controllable dildo that has a shaft made of bendable silicone that’s curved enough to hit the P-spot or G-spot. It’s small in size, comes with a harness (so you don’t have to deal with buying your own), and is totally waterproof for shower play. Apply lots of petroleum jelly or personal lubricant to your index finger. Doctors typically use petroleum jelly (like Vaseline) for this procedure, but a personal lubricant gel (such as KY Gel) works fine as well. In either case, don’t be shy about loading up the lubricant on your index finger! [3] X Research source

Relax your rectum as much as possible. Do your best to remain calm and relaxed because your rectum will naturally tense up when you insert your finger, especially if it’s a new experience for you. It’ll be more difficult and possibly uncomfortable to access your prostate if your rectum is contracted. [5] X Research source Despite the design that aims for the appearance of anatomical accuracy, the Destroya Fleshlight's interior actually offers an experience much different than partnered sex. The patented SuperSkin material is soft, yet offers a unique sensation thanks to the four textured chambers (though it's worth mentioning the insert is nine inches long, so not every penis will reach all the way to the fourth chamber). Still, when it comes to accommodating size, Fleshlight is one of the more adjustable and flexible toys.For starters, if you're in a masturbation rut, you might be able to get there physically, but you still find yourself emotionally, spiritually, and who knows, maybe even still physically, wanting something more. Maybe you'd simply like to take more time before reaching climax or you want to figure out if you have any undiscovered turn-ons. Sex toys can help. May is National Masturbation Month, and we're celebrating with Feeling Yourself, a series exploring the finer points of self-pleasure. Mashable is a registered trademark of Ziff Davis and may not be used by third parties without express written permission. It sounds easy, but it’s not, especially if this is your first time. In fact, chances are your fingers are too small to reach the location, or you’re not flexible enough to do the procedure by yourself. If the latter is true, you can use a prostate massager. You simply put it on a chair, sit and use your body to do the massage.

At four inches long and one inch wide, Anero's Helix Syn Trident may seem small and unassuming, but the sensations that it provides are anything but. Truly, this toy is a marvel of prostate massager engineering. Pro's - Long enough and big enough to reach anyone's prostate (or G spot I suppose) from either side, great to hold and look at and the ultimate in low maintenance or cleaning. Will happily reduce a prostate owner to a total spasming mess and then do the same to a GSPOT Owner, so it's Gender Flexible in the extreme. Cons - Expensive compared to most Aneros products. Intimidating as all hell if you're NOT used to Anal insertion and associated prostate based pleasures. Heavy. Whether you go for the Fleshlight or a Tenga toy, you'll want to be generous with the lube — that inner texture is a lot less pleasurable with too much friction involved. On using a vibrating massager (warning: somewhat unrealistic expectations of ease of orgasm): Thread: Beginner's Guide to Prostate Play With all that said, Fleshlight is most tailored to the person who enjoys a representational toy. If you want something a bit more abstract, the Tenga Flip Hole offers a similar experience with even more variation and emphasis on a unique inner texture. Though it can be slightly cheaper than the Fleshlight, it is known to show its age much faster than the Fleshlight. Or if you want to spend a little less and take sleeves for more of a test run, the disposable Tenga Eggs are also a crowd favorite.

For a new sensation, try playing with a toy that has some weight to give it some added pressure,” says Francis. She likes the Le Wand Arch, which is a little under two pounds. You can switch between the ribbed, bulbous end on one head and a flattened tip on the other, and because it’s made of stainless steel, it’s excellent for temperature play. “It can be warmed and cooled easily,” says Francis. “Just test it on your inner wrist first to make sure it’s not too intense in either direction.”

Yes, orgasms feel great, but one of the best parts about using sex toys while masturbating is that it really emphasizes the journey and not the destination.For fans of anal that aren't into the idea of inflation but want some vibrations, Unbound's Shimmy is an affordable option with five vibration intensities that'll keep you plenty occupied. The circular handle at the base is especially maneuvering during solo play. Three experts praised the Njoy Pure Wand, an elegantly arched stainless steel toy that looks more like a facial tool than a penis (a pro if discretion is a concern). “Curved toys can be great to stimulate sensitive internal nerve bundles, like the G-spot or prostate,” Francis says. Its bend also makes it easier to angle when slipped inside, Megan Fleming, PhD, a psychologist and AASECT-certified sex therapist, tells SELF.

This article was medically reviewed by Erik Kramer, DO, MPH and by wikiHow staff writer, Christopher M. Osborne, PhD. Dr. Erik Kramer is a Board-Certified Primary Care Physician at the University of Colorado. With over 15 years of experience, his clinical interests include obesity and weight management, diabetes care, and preventive care, as well as embracing a holistic approach to primary care. He received his Doctorate in Osteopathic Medicine (D.O.) from the Touro University Nevada College of Osteopathic Medicine and completed his residency at Central Maine Medical Center. Dr. Kramer is a Diplomate of the American Board of Obesity Medicine. First, figure out how you want to use the dildo. If you’re curious to try anal sex or pegging for the first time, choose a dildo that has a shorter, slimmer insertable length to adjust to the sensation, Shannon says. To experiment more with feeling stretched or full, opt for a dildo that’s on the longer, girthier side. That's also not to say this is an exhaustive list. Sexual pleasure is a deeply personal experience, so that super popular vibrator that everyone seems to rave about might not be your favorite, and that's more than okay. Glass is generally speaking cheaper, steel is heavier and more long lasting in the sense that if you drop it it doesn’t break. Both the njoy Pure Wand and the Le Wand Arch G-spot toys come in very nice gift boxes (they should given the price!) and feel luxurious. They make for a great gift. The Le Wand Arch also comes with a padded little storage bag. Apologies for posting a non Aneros subject in advance - Mod's remove if it's misplaced as no offense is intended.If you’re in the market for a classic, lifelike, anal-safe dildo, this one comes recommended by Carol Queen, PhD, who works at the sex- toy store Good Vibrations. “It’s dual density, so the exterior layer is softer and squeezable, and the interior is firm—sort of like, well, a penis,” she tells SELF. Totally different size wise. Until recently I found the progasm too big for me, but of late have come to love the full feeling it gives and the orgasms that come with it. Looking at both I note that other than the rounded tips of the NJOY the overall girth of the NJOY is smaller than the Progasm, so other than initial insertion and removal the NJOYS Size shouldn't give anyone used to Progasm sized toys any great difficulty. On Aneros use, prep work: Thread: Aneros prostate orgasms for HOURS everyday for a week in a hotel. Here's what I did... They’re also amazing for temperature play. Try "cooling it off in the fridge or warming it up with some hot water," Chiaramonte adds. Be sure to test the toy's temperature with your fingers before placing it on the genitals. No one wants to get burned. Take a shower and clean “between the cheeks” thoroughly. Use soap, water, and a soft washcloth to clean the area as best you can, then rinse it out thoroughly with clean water from the shower. The cleaner you feel "up there," the less self-conscious you're likely to be when the time comes to insert your finger.