Spanking Letters from Scandinavia

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Answer: On two occasions I said as vigorously as I was able that I objected to using the hairbrush as a spanking device and to anything except the bare, flat hand applied low on the child’s fat thighs. I have also said from time to time that as soon as the child learned to accept authority that we should abandon physical pain entirely as a means of punishment, that, as a rule, this should occur before the child is four or five. I enjoy spanking my husband. He is naked from the waist down, He bends over furniture and spreads his legs. I take a paddle and spank him. I get very damp watching him clench his cheeks and listening to his whining. Glad to find out I'm not the only guy who gets it ftom his wife although I would never have thought on a thousand years I'd get spanked as an adult. My wife is really sweet kind and gentle but when I do something to really ** up or make her angry I dont want to mess with her. When she's decided to spank there's usually no changing her mind or her serious demeanor. If I'm sent to wait for her to deal with me I'm nervous while waiting. She comes in and goes full force and in about a minute she's done and so is my **! The third letter in this triology was written by a bobby-soxer to the American Weekly twenty years after the second letter and almost a half century after the first, but the question is still the same. I wanted my wife to spank me. I did know how to bring it up. So one day when she was in the kitchen i walked in stood in front of her and wet my pants. Soaking my jeans down both legs and making a big yellow puddle on the floor.

A mother writes, for instance: “Dear Dr. Myers. As a mother, under 30, of four children, viz. one girl aged 4 and three boys ages 2, 5 and 8 years, I find your articles extremely interesting. I agree with you fully on the subject of spanking, although I have been criticized at certain times by my husband, for being what he terms too severe. I get spanked as well for various reasons and attitudes. Now and then we'll be going along fine and out of the blue my wife spanks me soundly!Letter Number 1 was written on April 1, 1898 by a young woman who had recently turned seventeen to the Editor of the NY Evening Journal... Letter number 2 was written June 5, 1928 to the New York Daily Mirror by a twenty year old office girl. I never know what will make her angry next, and when she does, over I go. I am afraid to leave, she is too strong for me, so what do I do?"

On the boy, who is 5 years old, the same procedure is followed: however, I give him usually about 40 to 50 fairly light spanks with the same hairbrush, making sure that I do not spank him, as well as any of the others, on or close to their spinal column. He requires a spanking, perhaps, a little more often than his sister; however, one usually lasts him at least a week, and sometimes longer. The oldest boy is 8, and perhaps he is getting almost too old to punish in this way; however, he is still a little stubborn, and there are times, but very rarerly, when nothing else seems to do him as much good as a sound paddling. I usually give him about 60 to 75 spanks with the same hairbrush, giving him a little harder spanks than I do the rest, and then I don’t have to repeat this for a long time, for at least a month, and sometimes six weeks to two months. I try never to threaten, but in case I do, I believe in carrying it out, and also believe in giving them what I promise, whether good or bad.” After a couple of years of spanking when i needed it she switched to weekly maintenance spankings, non of which are a picnic. I can still earn extra spankings with my behavior but i can guarantee a sound spanking at least weekly. We tend to think of the current stormy debate about spanking children as something new, but the truth is, the practice has always been a contentious issue, as can be seen from this archived article from the San Bernardino Sun newspaper in California, published on August 29, 1932. It is headlined ‘One Mother Has Entirely Wrong Idea’, with the strapline ‘Parent Tells of Spanking With Ruler, Hairbrush’.

To the Editor: I am a young girl just turned seventeen years, an orphan, and I have live with my aunt who has taken care of me since I was seven years old. She is just as good as can be, and loves me dearly, I know, but is awful strict, and spanks me very often when I don't do just as she says, and though I try real hard to please her, I get spanked two or three times some days, except Sundays. She just catches me anywhere and pulls me over her knee and slaps me good with anything that comes handy. Now I tell her it is not right to spank such a big girl, but she says I will never be too big for her to spank when I don't do as she says. Won't some of your readers write a letter with real good reasons why she ought to stop spanking me, so that when I see it, I can show it to her, so she will stop?--A GOOD GIRL

It was finally quiet as we drove for that way for about a minute and my wife said "A good ** beating." It sounded like she was thinking out loud but no one said anything, I felt my face flush. Thanks for the sequel and the interesting slant it gave the subject of mothers spanking older girls. This one was published in the Detroit Free Press in July of 1971, in an advice column by a Dr. Loriene Chase:At home I keep my hubby in ** and skirts. He’s kept hairless and must drop his ** for inspection when I ask. Often I’ll have inspection when one or two longtime girlfriends are present. When I wrote the post, I had been disapointed that I didn't have a more-recent mainstream newspaper letter to include. Frequently I am exceedingly distressed to learn from the large number of letters I get from my readers that I am supposed to have said many things I have never said, some that I have tried very hard, indeed, to condemn. To both of us there is a strength in femininity. There is a visual sexiness in womens clothes. There is the power of female.

Then in the mid 70's, a column in the News carried a series of letters about domineering mothers and ways of dealing with them. (The column in question, "Dear Jane Lee," was a treasure trove from our point of view.) One woman wrote in that the only effective response is to run, as she had, and she said, almost as an afterthought, that her mother had spanked her up to the age of 30. Two more women wrote in about how they, too, had been spanked into their 30's by their mothers, and how they had dealt with it. The reason I don't dismiss those letters is that they were about strategies for getting out, which is not exactly what fetishists write about. I am a woman, 30 years of age. I have had a couple of serious love affairs: At ages 19 and 21. No one was hurt, they just faded away. I am not William but I can understand his embarrassment at being spanked by the wooden spoon especially when his mother in law was in the house. My wife also punishes me if she thinks I deserve it. It is always over her knee, hairbrush until I am very red bottomed, then corner time. She often then puts me to bed even if it is quite early.But in response to your wife's sorority sisters, my wife had 2 high school girlfriends visit for a w/e (She'd known them for decades). At dinner they were speaking about relationships, husbands and pet peeves etc. My insisted about certain behaviors that I would never do or repeat, they were leery of her surety asking how did she know for sure I wouldn't do such and such? I confess I like spanking my husband and keeping him in **. Over the knee is uncomfortable for me. Usually I have him bend over a chair for a spanking. I only use a paddle or hairbrush. The sight of his hiny is a real turn on for me. Then he stands in a corner with one of my ** in him. If it slips out we begin again.