MASTERING THE ART OF CUNNINLINGUS (ORAL SEX): GUIDE TO GIVING HEAD LIKE A PRO (Oral Delights)

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Sinceoral sexrequires your partner to get aclose-upview of yourvulva,it can feel more intimate than even penetrative sex for many people. If you struggle with intimate connections, or if you’re too worried about how your body looks to relax and enjoyoral sex,it may not be pleasurablefor you. Many women even worry about how long it takes them to orgasm. All this worry can stop you from having the pleasure you deserve. You can also perform an alternative version of this oral sex position by reversing your position and sitting on your partner while facing their lower body. Some people prefer balancing themselves by resting their hands on the bed or their partner’s chest or hips. For many people, oral sex– that is, stimulating your partner’s genitals with your mouth – is an incredibly intimate and enjoyable part of any romantic encounter. The cure for the orgasm gap is pleasure-focused sex education. Sex is a biological need, and sexual pleasure is your birthright. If we’re all educated adequately about sexual anatomy, pleasure, and sexual mindset, we can close the orgasm gap.Cunnilingusis one way to make that happen. Once things are rolling, though, it’s still important to move slowly. A woman’sclitorisis extremely sensitive, and as such, many women have trouble with direct stimulation without a warm-up. It can even be painful.

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Try as we might, sex can unfortunately become monotonous if we find ourselves falling into habits or letting our busy lives to get away from us, says Sabat. Break up the monotony by using new techniques with oral sex to inject some excitement between the sheets: 32. Change the temperature Wired has put together a great little video about some of the science behind the female orgasm,… Read moreExplore your surroundings with targeted stimulation to make the sensations more intense. ‘When using your hands during cunnilingus, use your fingers to gently separate your partner’s vaginal lips,’ suggests Sabat. ‘Then, go directly inside of these lips, and stimulate the clitoris with your fingers or tongue. This will likely cause your partner to feel exposed – in a good way! – while your hands lend an extra added measure of stimulation.’ 17. Lube it up

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It is also possible to injure yourself in an oral sex position. Some complications that might arise during an encounter include causing trauma to your partner’s genital area. Women may experience changes in the pH of their vagina after an oral sex encounter, which might cause some irritation. How to Explore Oral Sex Positions with Your Partner Modified 69 took everything you love about face-sitting and combined it with everything you love about 69. Have your partner lie with their head and shoulders hanging off the side of the bed as you stand up. Walk toward them so you’re straddling over their face. From there, you can bend over to engage in a little reciprocity, or just enjoy being on the receiving end for a little while. See, for example, the Roman terracotta lamp (Cyprus Museum, Inv. D2759) where a couple performs “69” on each other. Try massaging the spot between your partner's testicles and anus. ‘This area is called the perineum and believe it or not, touching it will further stimulate your partner,’ Sabat says. ‘Use your hand to stimulate this region by stimulating it with gentle, but firm, circular movements.’ 23. Look upTemperature play can bring a whole new world of sensations to the bedroom. ‘If you and your partner agree to explore this type of play, I recommend bringing a glass filled with various sizes of ice cubes into the bedroom,’ says Sabat. ‘Put an ice cube in your mouth and roll it over your tongue before holding it near your lips. Then, drag the ice cube and your cold lips along different parts of your partner's body, exploring their genitals or anus with the ice and your cold lips to stimulate these regions.’ 33. Choose your lube Kayla suggests face-sitting. While she admits that she was nervous about “suffocating” her partner the first time, it turned out to be one of the most fantastic experiences she’s ever had. “I coated his face, his beard, and the pillow under his head,” she says. “When I heard a muffled, ‘Don’t move! I love it!’ I felt much better about it.” A little prep is essential on both sides. For the giver, trimmed nails and clean hands are important when using fingers in or around the anus. For the receiver, a through clean in the bath or shower using gentle soap and water is a must. And as ever, be sure to use protection. ‘Like any other oral sexual practice, you should always use barrier protection to prevent the spread of disease and infection’ says Sabat. ‘You can also use a dry condom or a latex glove to create a barrier at home.’ 27. Slow and steady