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Newbury R, Hayter M, Wylie KR, Riddell J. Sexual fantasy as a clinical intervention. Sex Relatsh Ther. 2012;27(4):358–71. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2012.733816. Holmberg D, Blair KL. Sexual desire, communication, satisfaction, and preferences of men and women in same-sex versus mixed-sex relationships. J Sex Res. 2009;46(1):57–66. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490802645294. As such, one of the most common ways that creators in this genre fulfill that is by adding light to heavy plot elements in their works. Boysen GA, Vogel DL, Madon S, Wester SR. Mental health stereotypes about gay men. Sex Roles. 2006;54:69–82. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-006-8870-0.

Feel free to share your lesbian fantasies and we might turn them into an erotic audio story: [email protected] Join us in this evocative tale of friendship, love, and the complexities of desire as these two best friends explore the uncharted territory of their emotions, discovering the depths of their connection in a way they never thought possible. During the 17th through 19th centuries, a woman expressing passionate love for another woman was fashionable, accepted, and encouraged. [68] These relationships were termed romantic friendships, Boston marriages, or "sentimental friends", and were common in the U.S., Europe, and especially in England. Documentation of these relationships is possible by a large volume of letters written between women. Whether the relationship included any genital component was not a matter for public discourse, but women could form strong and exclusive bonds with each other and still be considered virtuous, innocent, and chaste; a similar relationship with a man would have destroyed a woman's reputation. In fact, these relationships were promoted as alternatives to and practice for a woman's marriage to a man. [72] [d] If you’re looking for pleasure with a nice helping of imagination, then Literotica’s stories of sex-positive wish fulfillment and forbidden delights will really get you going.Cacioppo M, Vizzari V, Corica F, Maestri V, Simonelli C. An exploratory study on male homosexual erotic imagery. Sexologies. 2009;18(1):44–50. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sexol.2007.12.007. Foucault, Michel. Histoire de la sexualité [ The History of Sexuality] (Volumes 1-4). Paris: Éditions Gallimard, 1976–2018.

Nichols M. Lesbian sexuality/female sexuality: rethinking ‘lesbian bed death’. Sex Relatsh Ther. 2004;19(4):363–71. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681990412331298036. Nimbi FM, Tripodi F, Rossi R, Navarro-Cremades F, Simonelli C. Male sexual desire: an overview of biological, psychological, sexual, relational, and cultural factors influencing desire. Sexual Med Rev. 2020;8(1):59–91. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sxmr.2018.12.002 This article highlights the biopsychosocial factors influencing sexual desire in the male population. Instead of fetishizing lesbian sex, we aim to normalize and celebrate it. Of course, watching girl-on-girl romance can be a fetish, but on Audiodesires we just want to celebrate all things sex, regardless of who is in our stories.In addition to that, Bright Desire is also a champion of LGBTQ+ rights when it comes to porn, as they have a non-binary selection of clips and videos you could enjoy. Cute. 12. Crash Pad Series – Best Trans & Queer Porn for Womxn While many people still use the term lesbian sex, any LGBTQ+ person will tell you it’s outdated. Lesbian sex implies it involves two women who both identify as lesbians. We know not just women have vulvas and vaginas (some transgender and non-binary people do, too), and that not all women and people with vulvas who have sex with other women and people with vulvas identify as lesbians (they may identify as queer, bisexual, or pansexual, for example). So instead of using the term lesbian sex, we should instead be referring to it with a more inclusive term, like vulva-to-vulva sex, sex between two women or people with vulvas, or even just queer sex. Drumright LN, Strathdee SA, Little SJ, Araneta MRG, Slymen DJ, Malcarne VL, et al. Unprotected anal intercourse and substance use before and after HIV diagnosis among recently HIV-infected men who have sex with men. Sex Transm Dis. 2007;34(6):401–7. https://doi.org/10.1097/01.olq.0000245959.18612.a1.

The literature has highlighted a similar constellation of factors influencing sexual desire for both heterosexual and lesbian women such as depressive symptoms, relationship satisfaction, sexual functioning, and social support [ 31]. However, some studies highlighted unique sociocultural factors that may influence lesbian sexual desire [ 17••]. For example, lesbian women reported diminished sexual desire related to sexual discrimination, minority stress, internalized homophobia, religious perceptions of sexuality as a taboo, sociocultural pressures to conform to heteronormativity, and stronger gender roles expectations [ 17••, 31]. Sexual cognitions such as “age-related beliefs,” “sexual desire as a sin,” “conservative attitudes,” and “affection primacy” were frequently reported in lesbian women with sexual desire problems [ 33, 40]. Additionally, Paine et al. [ 41•] suggested that sexual activity and desire may diminish due to health, aging, and family events in both lesbian and heterosexual women. In lesbian women, these authors additionally emphasized the negative role of weight gain, caregiving for adult parents, and dealing with menopause together with their partner [ 41•]. However, lesbian women also described an increase in sexual drive as a result of experiencing cultural openness towards sexual diversity, having access to safer and more visible spaces, and having partners that challenged heteronormative and stereotypic gender expectations [ 17••]. Sexual Fantasies

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Following these premises, the stereotypic expectation on lesbian sexuality could be defined as having less sexual frequency and desire because the “drive-bringer” male figure is missing, whereas more importance is given to relationship and intimacy. Early studies on sexual frequency reported a lower rate of sexual activity in lesbian compared to heterosexual women [ 15]. The term “lesbian bed death (LBD)” was coined to indicate a decrease of sexual frequency and desire in lesbian couples after 1–2 years in long-term relationships [ 16]. This unfriendly term suggested that LBD is a lesbian-specific phenomenon referred to the quantity of sexual activity, devaluing the importance of quality in sexual experience [ 17••]. LBD is based on the idea of the existence of a standard frequency of sexual activity in couples [ 18], and sexual distress is not contemplated in most of these studies. Gordon LE. Bringing the U-haul: embracing and resisting sexual stereotypes in a lesbian community. Sexualities. 2006;9(2):171–92. https://doi.org/10.1177/1363460706063118. Women who had the option of a career instead of marriage labeled themselves New Women, and took their new opportunities very seriously. [f] Faderman calls this period "the last breath of innocence" before 1920 when characterizations of female affection were connected to sexuality, marking lesbians as a unique and often unflatteringly-portrayed group. [86] Specifically, Faderman connects the growth of women's independence and their beginning to reject strictly prescribed roles in the Victorian era to the scientific designation of lesbianism as a type of aberrant sexual behavior. [88] Identity and gender role in western culture Construction Berlin's thriving lesbian community in the 1920s published Die Freundin magazine between 1924 and 1933.

Hiding homosexual fantasies and desire is strongly associated with a perceived negative social climate regarding same-sex sexual behavior and may be functional for some men in dangerous contexts, such as some Arabic countries [ 79]. However, it is usually related to worse sexual satisfaction [ 20]. Coming out and self-disclosure should be better investigated in relation to their possible effects on sexual desire, both at individual and couple level. Creating sexual values inside romantic relationships predicted higher sexual satisfaction and dyadic sexual desire [ 80]. Iasenza S. Queering the new view. Fem Psychol. 2008;18(4):537–45. https://doi.org/10.1177/0959353508095535. Chaturbate, if you know who to look for, provides some very gratifying online live female-oriented sex shows. Peplau LA, Fingerhut AW. The close relationships of lesbians and gay men. Annu Rev Psychol. 2007;58:405–24. https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev.psych.58.110405.085701. If it’s your first time having sex with a woman or someone with a vulva, Dr Bisbey says you should treat it like you would having sex of any kind for the first time.Patterson CJ. Family relationships of lesbians and gay men. J Marriage Fam. 2000;62:1052–69. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2000.01052.x. Simmons JL. Public stereotypes of deviants. Soc Probl. 1965;13:223–32. https://doi.org/10.2307/798906. More discussion on gender and sexual orientation identity has affected how many women label or view themselves. Most people in western culture are taught that heterosexuality is an innate quality in all people. When a woman realizes her romantic and sexual attraction to another woman, it may cause an "existential crisis"; many who go through this adopt the identity of a lesbian, challenging what society has offered in stereotypes about homosexuals, to learn how to function within a homosexual subculture. [36] Lesbians in western cultures generally share an identity that parallels those built on ethnicity; they have a shared history and subculture, and similar experiences with discrimination which has caused many lesbians to reject heterosexual principles. This identity is unique from gay men and heterosexual women, and often creates tension with bisexual women. [25] One point of contention are lesbians who have had sex with men, while lesbians who have never had sex with men may be referred to as " gold star lesbians". Those who have had sex with men may face ridicule from other lesbians or identity challenges with regard to defining what it means to be a lesbian. [37] For some women, the realization that they participated in behavior or relationships that could be categorized as lesbian caused them to deny or conceal it, such as professor Jeannette Augustus Marks at Mount Holyoke College, who lived with the college president, Mary Woolley, for 36 years. Marks discouraged young women from "abnormal" friendships and insisted happiness could only be attained with a man. [26] [g] Other women embraced the distinction and used their uniqueness to set themselves apart from heterosexual women and gay men. [90] Scissoring is another hotly debated topic. If you’ve ever watched lesbian porn, you could be forgiven for thinking scissoring is all women and vagina-havers do when they have sex with each other. In truth, some queer people love scissoring and do it regularly, others say it doesn’t work for them and it’s not part of their sex lives. Oral sex