The Slave his Mistress and her Mother: Part Nine A New Reality

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I am Empress Akari. A Japanese professional and lifestyle Dominant based in Gloucestershire, where I regularly session from the elegant and well-appointed Pantheon Dungeon. I am also available to session in most of the South West, Midlands and Wales, including but not limited to Birmingham and Bristol. The slave, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the Goddess, at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both Goddess and slave: Play in the [BDSM] scene provides a mental arousal rather the traditional sense of sexual pleasure. For instance, recently I had a session where I broke my slave. My slave was pushed to his mental and physical edge—he went as far as he could go with me. Cathartically, my slave let himself go, expressed his true vulnerability and wept. I am a sadist above all in the scene; I get a high from breaking someone mentally and physically. The combination of the two is the ultimate turn on for me. These experiences are rare achievements in the years that I have played. I cherish those sessions, and they are amongst the most stimulating for me. That said each cane has it’s own individual characteristics as learned quite clearly in a past session with professional submissive Hannah Elliot and an adult schoolboy I have been caning for many years.

A Master/slave "relationship" is often a long-term relationship, comparable in duration to vanilla relationships, whereas a Dominant/submissive "relationship" could also be of the same duration or shorter - even lasting only the duration of a scene, for example, which may range from a number of minutes to hours. Depending on their contract and if the slave is willing to not be monogamous, a slave may be traded by their Master/Mistress, facilitated by sex club events, personals in BDSM interest magazines, or internet based social networks. [8] Commonly, a slave is also said to be "collared" if the relationship has become serious enough to the point where the slave has earned a collar in the eyes of their Master or Mistress. Though not every slave wears a physical slave collar, other jewelry may be worn as a token of their dedication and servitude to their Master/Mistress. Over the years, my slaves would complain that they couldn’t figure out how to introduce their girlfriends or wives to female dominance. I co-wrote a book titled How to be a Dominant Diva which focuses on giving couples the inspiration and tools to explore eroticism, role-play and power exchange in a way that is exciting but never intimidating!

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My specialty is in tease and desperation play. There are many ways to put someone in “sub space”—a state of mind in which your inhibitions and ego go completely out the window and you are overcome by an utterly submissive feeling. One way to reach this state is via sexual desperation. By building up arousal over time without sexual gratification, eventually you reach a point where your sexual desires become too overwhelming to handle—it is a place where you are willing to do anything for gratification, and at that moment, my power over you is absolute. All discipline will be fair and not without cause. If slave has displeased Mistress as a result of Mistress not being clear on Her rules and/or instructions, then no discipline is justified or will be given. This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms in a relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed the slave and the Goddess. This agreement is legal and binding. This agreement must be entered voluntarily, but cannot be broken except under the conditions stated herein, after which certain precautions shall be taken to protect those involved. (See section 7.0.0) d) Slave understands that all that he has, and all that he does, shall now move from right to privilege, granted only as She wishes, and only to the extent that She finds useful. This article needs additional citations for verification. Please help improve this article by adding citations to reliable sources. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed.

In the dungeon however I prefer not to use Discipline as punishment – but see it as a gift of suffering and submission that the slave is giving to me. A way to connect via trust, endurance and ordeal. Snitow, Ann Barr; Stansell, Christine; Thompson, Sharon (1983), Powers of desire: the politics of sexuality, New feminist library, Monthly Review Press, ISBN 978-0-85345-610-0 Some people draw up a slave contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail. These contracts may also deal with domestic arrangements (such as cleanliness, home duties) and interpersonal relationship matters (such as issues of deference, language, etc.), besides the sexual arrangements. Typically, they would provide that the Master or Mistress has the exclusive authority in all matters relating to the body and behavior of the slave, including underwear and other clothing, social relations outside of the arrangement, etc. Although such contracts are not enforceable in the ways legal contracts are, they can be useful for defining in written form the limits of the arrangement between the signatories, and for documenting the consensual nature of the relationships they define between them. [6]The Master/slave (or Owner/ property) relationship is consensual, without the legal force of historical or modern non-consensual slavery, which is forbidden by the laws of most countries. In a true TPE relationship, a slave has given up or “exchanged” her rights, all of her rights. These surrendered rights are exchanged for the protection and care of her Master. The Master no longer requires the slave’s consent for anything. h) When in a domestic environment, slave is responsible for maintenance and completion of all household chores. The purpose of this slave contract is to instill all that such servitude implies. This contract is written to make clear the expectations of Mistress and the consequences for failure to live up to this agreement. This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of the relationship between Mistress and slave. Both are committed to promoting health and happiness and improving both lives in the spirit of loving and consensual Dominance and submission, with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration. slave desires that virtue be a significant part of this relationship. Therefore it is agreed that fundamental to his/her slavery will be the practices of the virtues of trust, honesty, openness, loyalty and obedience. Without the practice of these virtues in this relationship to Mistress, there can be no true slavery. Their practice therefore, is expected and required at all times. These terms and conditions are set forth as a formal way of defining the rules by which both enter into this safe, sane and consensual relationship. With a signature, both Mistress and slave agree and accept that these terms and conditions cannot be altered in any way except by mutual consent. There is no typical client. I see couples, women, CEOs, Uber drivers, married guys, virgins. There’s the client who saves up for six months to have a session that means the world to him and the client who just needs a thrill on his lunch break. It runs the gamut.