Bad Behavior: Stories

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For her, both the feminists and the anti-feminists of the 1990s focused too narrowly on codifying sexual “rules” without paying attention to personal responsibility and self-awareness. She veered between extravagant outbursts of opinion and sudden, uncertain halts, during which she seemed to look to him for approval. We find ourselves missing our loved ones and missing, too, the many strangers with whom we used to share the city streets. After Veronica is diagnosed with HIV, she losing all those closest to her, Allison is drawn to her more than ever, but with a strong sense of pity, as she rapidly loses her health. But just after she has persuaded the audience of the unfairness of such a portrayal, the author reads a funny story aloud from her book, which leaves the journalist unimpressed.

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I look immediately the next day to see how many people have looked at it, how many people have liked it, what have people said. The book is a rewriting of the 1935 novel National Velvet (later a film starring Elizabeth Taylor and Mickey Rooney) told from the perspective of several narrators, the point of view changing with every chapter. Some of her disassociated New Yorkers looking for connections in all sorts of places occupy rent controlled apartments in my head and have refused to leave. Yet Margot remains his friend throughout, even as she grows even more dismayed by Quin’s lack of capacity for self-reflection, his defensiveness, and his self-justifications.I was seduced by the wildness of the characters, by their brazenness and force, even in the face of their own confusion, and often despite their inefficacy. Their friendship is forged not despite but because of this brief moment of struggle, during which each reveals something to the other and recognizes something in turn.

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As you point out, in the real-life situation, unlike the book and film based on it, the women did not leave their community. As of 2005, she lived in New York City; Gaitskill has previously lived in Toronto, San Francisco, and Marin County, CA, as well as attending the University of Michigan where she earned her B. In one, they’re standing in a field of flowers, and the lawyer tells her, “I understand you now, Debby. An air of Pinteresque menace hangs over these people's social exchanges like black funereal bunting .When I ask Gaitskill about the moment in This Is Pleasure when Margot reflects on the “book of charming stories about masochistic women” that forged her reputation – “I have never quite separated myself from that titillating yet tiresome aura”– she just laughs: “Who could that be? I don’t agree with that,” Gaitskill said, a statement that many contemporary feminists might find not just controversial, but potentially dangerous. It is told from the alternating perspectives of Margot, an editor whose “professional reputation … was made [by] a book of charming stories about masochistic women” (sound familiar?

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Her stories and essays have appeared in the New Yorker, Harper's, Artforum, and Granta, among many other journals, as well as in The Best American Short Stories and The O.In one of Mary Gaitskill’s best short stories, The Agonized Face, a female journalist watches a “feminist author” read at a literary festival. From her groundbreaking 1988 collection Bad Behavior, through several novels, and up to “ Minority Report,” a story published this week in the New Yorker, Mary Gaitskill has plumbed the mysteries of human relationships with a fearsome candor. To feel the horror of something like that violation of trust, I have to know who these people are outside of the horror. In that sense, they are not so different in attitude from those ladies dedicated to establishing feminist-based rules and regulations for sex. One of the more obvious questions he had asked me was, “Debby, do you ever have the sensation of being outside yourself, almost as if you can actually watch yourself from another place?

Bad Behavior: Mary Gaitskill (Penguin Modern Classics)

Especially in America, it seems like people bounce back wildly from one moralistic pole to the other. In response, Margot shoves her hand into his face, “palm out, like a traffic cop,” and tells him “no” as firmly as she can. And yet, as the journalist in The Agonized Face suggests, “sometimes you wish it could be that easy”.It is a wordless yearning that contemporary feminist discourse now and again skips over in its quest to invert the male gaze and normalise female desire. We put a representation of ourselves out there on the internet and then become obsessed with what the internet reflects back at us. Ruthless, uncompromising, and at times, brutal to contend with; Mary Gaitskill’s Bad Behavior is a seductive look at unyielding women. A lot of what I was looking at was old wrecked buildings and tumbledown backs of people’s houses and railroad tracks. It’s hard to characterize these moments; words like “happy” and “joyful” don’t really do them justice, as they suggest the absence of pain or foreknowledge or doubt.