Get Down: Have your date eat you out and have him take a picture or video from his point of view. Post them (significant other excluded). This is probably when I was like 12. I got dared to pee behind a bush. As revenge I dared that person to walk behind the bush barefoot.” — CaptainSquab 3. Dinner Was Spicy Post a photo/video of you wearing a remote-controlled vibrator to dinner. Give your significant other/date the control. Reveal Yourself: Post a photo/video of you wearing something revealing for your date (significant other excluded). I wake up with Brandon’s tongue between my legs. Long, tender laps slowly making my dreams wet, fusing with reality until I become conscious of his mouth tasting my morning juices. I lie on the bed, spread like a starfish, enjoying my hubby’s love with my eyes closed.

We told her she had to kiss the dog, we didn’t think she was going to use tongue. After that we just didn’t want to play anymore. 17. A Disastrous Ending If you had anything to say about it the time you should have done it was then and there, not after the fact. Certainly, a lot of the patients your friend sees haven’t thought about the impact on a pregnancy would have on their lives in even the most theoretical abstract terms, but I disagree pregnancy, or even any other big live moment, is something that you necessarily have to go into with 100% intention ahead of time. A lot of our biggest live changes are not something we instigate ourselves, but they happen to us and we have to be prepared to respond. You can’t always anticipate losing your job (or a sudden job opportunity for something you’d never considered before may just drop into your lap). You can’t anticipate the housing market radically shifting. You can’t anticipate a health crisis. There’s a lot you can’t anticipate, so for me, life is a balance of being flexible while trying to imagine different scenarios you might encounter and how you might respond should they happen. If I thought that he innocently/naively intended the photo request to be a joke that turned out badly, I would tell him that you felt uncomfortable with his comment, ask him to refrain from making such comments in the future, then I would let it slide (assuming that he apologized for making you feel uncomfortable). If I thought that he was serious about his request for the photo, I would end the relationship because I would just feel creeped out being around him.

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Admire This 1!: Have your date take a picture or video from his point of view while you ride him. Post the photo/video. Once when I was 18 at a house party, I was dared to ask the neighbors if I could take a bath. They let me. I had a bath and left gratefully. They were nice people. I brought my own towel from the house the party was taking place in so I didn’t contribute to their laundry. I was still wet when I left.” — Pxander 2. Your group of twelve consisted of the people you all feel confident to be seen half naked with. It is well known that alcohol affects your inhibitions. You started talking about sex. I assume your pals also saw your wife's breasts, and panties leave little for imagination. So, where's the problem? I mean, I’ve done weird shit but the most memorable was giving my (male) friend a full body wax. We had an agreement that if he wanted to forfeit he could, but he didn’t. He yelled SO much, it was crazy. We’re still good friends, and he brings it up fairly often.” — Decade_Of_Love 5.

Just sayin’, yes it’s frustrating to read these letters but there is a LOOOOOOOOOONG history in the U.S. of WOC and poor women being outright denied BC or given misinformation, so please think about that before making general off-the-cuff remarks about why people can’t get their shit together & BC is so accessible. At a party someone asked “Who gave you the best blowjob ever?” hoping to get a compliment. Instead, we found out that the man had received a BJ from every woman there and one of the men. That started a long chain of “Wait Bob had sex with Sally? When?” etc. Names changed, feelings were hurt. 5. The Making Of A Serial KillerAt the end of the day it was a drunken conversation and the act that your wife did was BEFORE you were even together and it was not graphic information about intercourse just a generalisation about a bj and the size of this guy's penis which she was answering during a conversation. Considering the circumstances of the party, I don’t believe that you have any reason to hold anything against your wife for what she did. I can imagine that you might be embarrassed to know that everyone knows her history now. I think that I would be too. However, I think that you both have to share some of the fault for a game and drinking that got a bit out of hand at a party. After all, she didn’t give anyone a blowjob or screw someone in the bedroom on a dare. So now everyone knows that she is not as pure as you wish they thought. Well, nobody is. My wife isn’t as pure as both of us wish and neither am I. We all have done things that we may or may not be happy with. They should be our secret if that is what we want, but sometimes mistakes are made. When that happens, we need to try to discuss our feelings in a civil way and try to make sure that we don’t make the same mistake again. As a little kid we were staying at my grandmas I was dared to dance naked on the windowsill (blinds open) while singing and shouting about being naked. I feel sorry for any neighbours that saw the crazy little girl rubbing her bum on the window singing ‘hey I’m naked very naked.'” — follower888 9. I think you have dwelled on this for far too long and it is time to move on and talk about it openly with your wife but then literally put it to bed and stop it there, don't continually bring it up in conversation and if your friends mention it then tell them you don't want to discuss it any further, result - they will realise you didn't like it.

Women of Color and poor women aren’t necessarily given this information. I know that this sounds kinda crazy but…think about this:But your comfort and safety must be centered, as the kids say. This is a big ask on his part and your physical, emotional, and sexual safety are a make-or-break part of the conversation. If he's making you feel uncomfortable or unsafe... that's a bad sign. — Dan At a sleepover in junior high we dared our friend to strip down to his underwear…you know, homoerotic pubescent stuff. He comes out from the other room completely naked and gyrating, saying “You got more than you bargained for!” 2. What A Wild Ride But to be clear: he’s not asking you if he can have sex with other people. He’s asking you to have sex with other men. He’s not asking you to release him from the monogamous commitment he made to you. He’s releasing you—in a certain context—from the monogamous commitment you made to him. You say, “I do not want to see him or have him with other people.” But the issue here isn’t about monogamy generally or the commitment you got and still want from him—a monogamous commitment—it’s about the commitment he got and apparently no longer wants (if he ever wanted) from. So setting aside the commitment you got and still want... Thanks to everyone. We talked about this, I especially mentioned that part that me wondering and assuming the most would be worse than talking the truth. Well she did play with him, and while she was kissing his chest and stroking his penis, he tried to push her head down to give him a blowjob. As much as she admitted being turned on by his body she knew that would be very wrong. She ending up finishing him off with a handjob. She feels very guilty, but as someone here said, we both played this 'dangerous' game willingly, and I knew she was turned on by this guy. Well, no more Truth or Dare for us. This is the first time it went this far, but now we're both a little embarrassed that probably everyone that was there is assuming that they did something in our bedroom (well they did, but they probably assume even more than what happened). He does so and comes up with an amount equivalent to a golf ball. I see his hand disappear down into the sleeping bag and see motions that are indicative of someone playing with their balls. He pulls his hand out, sniffs it again, and asks “What’s that supposed to dooooAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!”